Agreed, these are good men, but there is no excuse for not following sound, moral and ethical standards in doing "whatever they are doing..."
1. Conclude that you have a serious problem with the organization based on personal conviction and/or policy issues.
2. Pray for direction in what to do.
3. If appropriate, turn in your card with a well-written letter explaining your actions.
4. Refrain from denigrating the organization or anyone not leaving.
5. Go about your plans with a clear conscience and the respect of your brethren.
Unfortunately, this is not how they have chosen to proceed with their actions...and I am not angry with them; just disappointed...