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Originally Posted by bcarolb
ditto, then you think well...who are you to know and not me? He was right under my nose. Am I that spriitually dead that I can't see what is obvious?
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My father was gay. In later years, he said that he married my mother to "get over it." NO ONE had any clue until many years later. NO ONE suspected, other than my mother. He was very adept at keeping up the front. If anyone other than my mother did suspect, they never said one word because he was a vibrant personality who could charm the birds from the trees, sang so beautifully, and headed up the Sunday school dept.
It has NOTHING to do with you being spiritually dead.
I hope your daughter has a wonderful, joyous life. It took my mother years, but now I watch her laughing and happily remarried and loving her life. I see her at peace.
It leaves deep scars on the family. But time passing makes the scars less tender.
You, your daughter, your grandchildren are in my prayers.