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Originally Posted by Michlow
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Alcoholics Anonymous members often form informal accountability groups or partnerings. It is done along the lines of setting a thief to catch a thief, meaning that a lying alcoholic isn't going to be fooled by another lying alcoholic when the direct question is asked, 'did you take a drink this week?'
Accountability in the sense often considered by Pentecostal believers is somewhat similar, in that you agree to be honest to your accountability partners, and you meet regularly and interrogate each other about sin, attitude, or whatever it is you're struggling with.
Weight watchers does a form of this too, come to think of it.
In other Pentecostal circles, accountability means accepting any counsel to change. Sometimes it can even mean mindless obedience to unsolicited advice.
You probably have the spectrum of Pentecostal notions represented here, but in my opinion anybody intelligent enough to operate a computer will be much better served by the first arrangement.
Basically, you find a person or people that you know and trust, whose walk with God you find worthy of emulation, and you ask them to check you. At the same time, you agree to answer their questions truthfully, in the agreed-upon arenas of accountability. Maybe you use this person or group as a sounding board for your ideas regarding important life decisions. You aren't obligated to take anybody's advice, but a multitude of counselors are likely to catch something you've missed, or to have already gone through what you're about to.
It is an excellent idea, but it shouldn't replace your relationship with God.