Sounds like you have a lot of good suggestions here.
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Happy moments, PRAISE GOD.
Difficult moments, SEEK GOD.
Quiet moments, WORSHIP GOD.
Painful moments, TRUST GOD.
Every moment, THANK GOD.
Have a videographer, a piano, and some good lighting. Let them stroll down memory lane with stories & song...record it all and give them a DVD. Sell it at church and raise money for their dept. too!