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Old 12-11-2008, 09:07 PM
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Pastors being too close to laity can lead to all sorts of deviance.
The laity is evil and corrupting!!!! God have mercy on the poor pastor who is led by the sheep into sin!
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Old 12-11-2008, 09:08 PM
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It's exaggeration when I do it.

It's lying when someone I don't like does it.
- now there's an honest man!
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Anyone can be 100% approachable and still have a private life. But hopefully most of us are not prejudiced against certain members of the body that we divide the body into inferior/superior classes and only choose friends out of the better....if the distinction here was race or color of skin we'd be talking racism
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He said "if"....then we'd be talking racism.

Read Char - read.
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Old 12-11-2008, 09:12 PM
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Re: How close should a pastor get to the members?

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He said IF.

He didn't accuse pastors of racism.

We're all prejudiced to some extent, and it doesn't have to be against skin color - it can be against social class, lifestyle, etc.

The point Prax was trying to make, if I interpret his post correctly, is that some pastors consider saints to be in another social class, thereby creating a prejudice.

However, I won't argue that point with you, will you answer my other question?

And by the way, you don't need to call me Rev. Phelps, I'm no longer in the ministry.
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So, let me ask you a question. Let's say a saint was done wrong by a pastor.

How should that saint handle such an offense?
Isn't the answer obvious?

Post about it online.

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Anyone can be 100% approachable and still have a private life. But hopefully most of us are not prejudiced against certain members of the body that we divide the body into inferior/superior classes and only choose friends out of the better....if the distinction here was race or color of skin we'd be talking racism
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You were taking it out of context.
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Isn't the answer obvious?

Post about it online.

Oh, ok, well I appreciate your honesty.

So, if you had a disagreement with a saint, and they felt they had been done wrong by you, you would have no problem with them coming on AFF and airing the entire situation?
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He said "if"....then we'd be talking racism.

Read Char - read.
No no no....he was comparing the situations.

Why even bring up raciism? Prejudice?
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Oh, ok, well I appreciate your honesty.

So, if you had a disagreement with a saint, and they felt they had been done wrong by you, you would have no problem with them coming on AFF and airing the entire situation?
What is your point, Brother?

Teach me.
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