Living Arrangements

[rgcraig]

Rhoni,

You do this to yourself. As you know, "the world" and most of us here would define the term lover as someone you are having sexual relations with.

You might have chosen that term to stir up some reactions and now you have to deal with those reactions.

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by Rhoni

PO,

I have never ignored your questions or Anglin's. I see no issue here unless you want my definition of a "Lover". A person who you love and loves you back and would sit on a couch and cuddle, i.e., put his arms around you and nuzzle into your neck during the commercials. Marriage is not something I am ready for nor do I know if I will ever be ready again. I have had a bad experience with it and don't want to repeat the experience.

Do all of you think I am a slut and want muliptle sexual encounters without being married? That is what you all treat me like. I gave all that stuff up years ago. Would you like me to list those I have had sex with so you can give them a phone call and ask them if it was as good for them as it seems to be for all of you?

Rhonda

You are taking "lover" out of the normal context and, once again, put yourself at a disadvantage to be understood the way you would like to be.

Your last paragraph wasn't necessary, as you were the one digging the hole - as usual - not me.

My only question would be - how long do you just "cuddle" with a lover during commercials? That doesn't make sense to me.

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

Rhoni,

You do this to yourself. As you know, "the world" and most of us here would define the term lover as someone you are having sexual relations with.

You might have chosen that term to stir up some reactions and now you have to deal with those reactions.

We must have been sisters in a past life!

[Rhoni]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

Rhoni,

You do this to yourself. As you know, "the world" and most of us here would define the term lover as someone you are having sexual relations with.

You might have chosen that term to stir up some reactions and now you have to deal with those reactions.

I did not use the term to stir up anything maybe you and PO need to get your mind out of the gutter.

Rhonda

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by Rhoni

I did not use the term to stir up anything maybe you and PO need to get your mind out of the gutter.

Rhonda

Rhonda,

Get serious. There is not ONE person here and anywhere else that would not say "lover" is one you are having sexual relations with.

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by Rhoni

I did not use the term to stir up anything maybe you and PO need to get your mind out of the gutter.

Rhonda

Good try, but no cigar, honey!

[rgcraig]

lover

–noun
1. a person who is in love with another.
2. a person who has a sexual or romantic relationship with another.
3. a person with whom one conducts an extramarital sexual affair.

friend (boyfriend or girlfriend)
-noun
1. a person you sit on the couch and nuzzle with

[Scott Hutchinson]

Pass the popcorn.

[Rhoni]

lov·er (lvr)
n. 1. One who loves another
2. lovers A couple in love with each other.
3. A paramour.

4. One who is fond of or devoted to something: a lover of fine food.

Definitions of the word are many. I am not sure why many of you always look at worst case scenerio.

Blessings, Rhoni

[Michael Phelps]

Originally Posted by Scott Hutchinson

Pass the popcorn.

Send some my way, Scott - this is like watching a train wreck. Again. And again. And again.