Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)

[ILG]

Originally Posted by 1399

I have heard a former UPC Pastor preach against certain sex acts, even between husbands and wife. He did so at a General Conference.


I have been told by more than a few Christina folks who meant well but wanted to guide me into making sure that when the Lord blesses me with a wife, we don't do anything to displease Him.

How does oral sex between a wife and husband displeases the Lord?

I'm glad I don't listen to some preaching anymore. Some "preachers" don't deserve to lead.

[ILG]

I was reading this thread, but I can't quite stomach all of it. I'll just pick up from where things left off and skip all the in between. Mostly, it's the ignorance that makes me sick.

[ManOfWord]

WOW....I guess I missed a whole lot of stuff here! Well, anyway, as a pastor, I have always made it a personal policy to stay out of the church folk's bedrooms. I teach about marriage and intimacy and always try to do it in a proper context. Every year, around Valentine's Day, I teach a series called, "Turing the Fizzle into Sizzle." Everyone loves it and I talk about relationships. I don't talk about sex per se, but I do talk about steps to regain the fire, the intimacy and the passion no matter how long a couple have been married.

I have heard of pastors telling their congregants to go home and "crank it up" in the bedroom, but I have been very reluctant to cross that line. I think it is very personal. I also think it is a little self-serving for a MAN to get up and basically tell the women to put out! It would be completely different if say, the pastor's wife said that or another notable woman in the congregation. Why is it always the men who are giving out these "suggestions?"

Just wondering......

[ILG]

Originally Posted by ManOfWord

I think it is very personal. I also think it is a little self-serving for a MAN to get up and basically tell the women to put out! It would be completely different if say, the pastor's wife said that or another notable woman in the congregation. Why is it always the men who are giving out these "suggestions?"

Just wondering......

I completely agree a man should never tell women to put out. But, women shouldn't either. It is a personal thing. The women who mught self-righteously tell other women to put out (usually for the personal gain of respect from men in the congregation) don't have to live with the husband's of all the wives. Intimacy is what should be taught. Sex will take care of itself if intimacy is gained. Sex can be performed. Intimacy is a place of being.

[ManOfWord]

Originally Posted by ilg

i completely agree a man should never tell women to put out. But, women shouldn't either. It is a personal thing. The women who mught self-righteously tell other women to put out (usually for the personal gain of respect from men in the congregation) don't have to live with the husband's of all the wives. Intimacy is what should be taught. Sex will take care of itself if intimacy is gained. Sex can be performed. Intimacy is a place of being.

amen!!!!

[revrandy]

All I got to say is WOOHOO!!!....

[Glenda B]

Originally Posted by Rhoni

He's just **** and wants to make it a commandment Sex is not legalistic but the absence of it could be

Blessings, Rhoni

Originally Posted by Lacey

Just stating my own opinion here but, I think this whole topic is out of line and I think that preacher was out of line bringing up such a subject. Absolutely none of his business nor ours here to discuss such private matters.

So Do I agree with you Lacey, and I think the language used here is very un-christ like for someone who calls themself such. What goes on in the privacy in a married couples bedroom is no one elses business, and surely doesn't need to be discussed on an open forum.

[revrandy]

Originally Posted by Hot Coffee Ms.

So Do I agree with you Lacey, and I think the language used here is very un-christ like for someone who calls themself such. What goes on in the privacy in a married couples bedroom is no one elses business, and surely doesn't need to be discussed on an open forum.

Hence my prophetic prohetical prohecy of soon to be locked...and I agree... what is with all these single folk discussing these things???

[Jermyn Davidson]

Originally Posted by Hot Coffee Ms.

So Do I agree with you Lacey, and I think the language used here is very un-christ like for someone who calls themself such. What goes on in the privacy in a married couples bedroom is no one elses business, and surely doesn't need to be discussed on an open forum.

Language?

I don't think anyone used any vulgarity or profanity.

Are you under the belief that there is a difference between the Biblical definition of sodomy and the Merriam-Webster definition of that same word?

[Jermyn Davidson]

Originally Posted by revrandy

Hence my prophetic prohetical prohecy of soon to be locked...and I agree... what is with all these single folk discussing these things???

What is it with preachers addressing this same subject at a General Conference?