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Originally Posted by revrandy
She is the victim in all this....
Interesting...No Fault Zone Play there...
ain't buyin' it...sister...
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OH BOY! I'm in the mood for a good rumble er I mean discussion today so I'll slap the spoon in the ole pot and give it a good stir...
Ultimate responsibility for this fiasco falls on the husband unless Paula was fooling around on him.
That part in the marriage vows about "for better or for worse" applies to the husband just as much as the wife. Therefore, unless she was fooling around on him, it is his responsibility, as the HUSBAND to do whatever it takes to keep the marriage together...that includes denying his own flesh under ANY circumstances other than unfaithfulness of his spouse.
Just as Adam carries the blame for sin entering the world, so Randy carries the blame for this.
Too many husbands want their cake and want to eat it too. Either you are the HEAD or you aren't. Either you are the leader or you aren't. You can't pick and choose your scenarios unless you remain SINGLE.
Let the fireworks fire.