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[Rhoni]

Originally Posted by Oneness Man

I am not being rude, but it is common knowledge though.

No it isn't...and it is rude.

[Rhoni]

Originally Posted by Oneness Man

Discernment has something to do with it and I will pray that God's will be down in her son's life, because that is the person she is concerned about.

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Originally Posted by Rhoni

No it isn't...and it is rude.

Rhoni,

And I love you too.

[Rhoni]

So I am sweet and a bit tart...

Originally Posted by Rhoni

So I am sweet and a bit tart...

Oh you are? Awww that is so sweet and so tart.

Are you a sweet tart?

[Margies3]

Originally Posted by Rhoni

No it isn't...and it is rude.

Thank you, Rhoni. I'm glad it was not only me who thought that this was out of line.

Why in the world would fellow Christians - people who are supposed to love as Jesus loves - feel the need to be so hurtful to others of like faith? I don't get that at all. For shame!

Originally Posted by Margies3

Why in the world would fellow Christians - people who are supposed to love as Jesus loves - feel the need to be so hurtful to others of like faith?

Look in the mirror before you try judging others. I did nothing wrong and why are you making a big deal about it? It's done and over.

James 4:11 Speak not evil one of another, brethren. He that speaketh evil of his brother, and judgeth his brother, speaketh evil of the law, and judgeth the law: but if thou judge the law, thou art not a doer of the law, but a judge.

James 5:9 Grudge not one against another, brethren, lest ye be condemned: behold, the judge standeth before the door.


BTW, Joy posted it on another thread.

[Margies3]

Originally Posted by Oneness Man

Look in the mirror before you try judging others. I did nothing wrong and why are you making a big deal about it? It's done and over.

I'm making a big deal of it because Joy very specifically did NOT tell us who it was she was talking about. That is information for HER to share - not you or anyone else. She can share it IF and when she chooses to. If not, we have no business speaking out of turn.

And as far as it being done over and over ---- well, friend, like I tell my kids, "Just because Johnny gets drunk and drives down the road, does that make it ok for YOU to get drunk and drive down the road? No. it doesn't. Wrong is wrong"

If you can feel good about what you've said here, fine. I couldn't do this to a friend and then sleep comfortably tonight. If this was YOUR loved one whose identity you were trying to protect, would you like it if someone came on and claimed that they knew who it was by "discernment"? I imagine not. I know I wouldn't.

Originally Posted by Margies3

I'm making a big deal of it because Joy very specifically did NOT tell us who it was she was talking about. That is information for HER to share - not you or anyone else. She can share it IF and when she chooses to. If not, we have no business speaking out of turn.

You shouldn't make a big deal about it.

And as far as it being done over and over ---- well, friend, like I tell my kids, "Just because Johnny gets drunk and drives down the road, does that make it ok for YOU to get drunk and drive down the road? No. it doesn't. Wrong is wrong"

Nothing is wrong with what I did, so could you just build a bridge and get over it.

If you can feel good about what you've said here, fine.

I didn't do nothing wrong.

I couldn't do this to a friend and then sleep comfortably tonight.

Why do you attack people for no reason at all?

If this was YOUR loved one whose identity you were trying to protect, would you like it if someone came on and claimed that they knew who it was by "discernment"?

That would be the only way that they would know and that is by discernment.

I imagine not. I know I wouldn't.

Well, I love you too.

[Rhoni]

One of the things I hate about some Apostolic men...they just don't have enough discernment to admit they are wrong and say, "I am sorry".