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Old 05-07-2010, 10:18 PM
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Re: Ministries for women porn addicts

How did we get here as a society? I was at the drug store and I observed two teen girls picking out condoms. Is our nation overly influenced by sex? Hollywood? Music? Schools?
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Old 05-07-2010, 11:06 PM
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Pain is the essence of injury. To be harmed by or want to harm the one you love is strange to me. I don't know...just strange to me.

Restraint, blindfolds, etc. are just sensory deprivation. When one sense is denied the others increase. It can actually enhance the experience.
Pain is simply the opposite of sensory deprivation. Two sides to the same coin, so to speak.

Now, answer me why sensory deprivation is acceptable, but sensory (over) stimulation is not. If it's between a married couple, what could possibly be the problem? Right...?
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Old 05-08-2010, 09:05 AM
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Pain is simply the opposite of sensory deprivation. Two sides to the same coin, so to speak.

Now, answer me why sensory deprivation is acceptable, but sensory (over) stimulation is not. If it's between a married couple, what could possibly be the problem? Right...?
It might be on God's list. But we'll never know.
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Old 05-10-2010, 11:19 AM
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Pain is simply the opposite of sensory deprivation. Two sides to the same coin, so to speak.

Now, answer me why sensory deprivation is acceptable, but sensory (over) stimulation is not. If it's between a married couple, what could possibly be the problem? Right...?
If a couple wishes to turn off all lights, use blind folds, or restrain one another that's different than inflicting pain. It's just weird to me. That's all I'm saying.
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Old 05-10-2010, 11:56 AM
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Re: Ministries for women porn addicts

I think whatever is acceptable to BOTH is fine, as long as there is no immoral, criminal or injurious activity.
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Old 05-10-2010, 11:57 AM
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Re: Ministries for women porn addicts

Mark Driscoll has some good things to say on this topic.
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Old 05-10-2010, 12:14 PM
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Have you ever read "Everyman's Battle?" My husband has it and we both read it. Great book that deals with these issues.
Great book with practical help.
I would say it's a little on the conservative side, but it raises good points.

And I agree... to say the mind will be coralled is idealistically naive at best.
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Old 05-10-2010, 12:16 PM
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Why would a God fearing pure hearted saint want to act out a sinful acts?? I think I know the answer!
Wow, add a little spice to your love life. Geez.
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Old 05-10-2010, 12:19 PM
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Truth, I agree with you. A spouse should never imagine being with someone else while with their mate. However, pretending that their wife is a French maid is entirely different.
Please. How many HAVEN'T done this?
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I'm familiar with BDSM.

I don't have the answers. I asked you why you draw that line there, between bondage and pain. What, to you, makes pain unacceptable, but restraint ok?

Bah....I really hope this isn't going places the forum isn't ok with it going....Just yell at me or something Renda.
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