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Old 06-23-2008, 04:18 PM
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Sister, I am very tempted to take the plunge and make her a homeschooled child. I want to give it one more year with the public school before I do something that drastic.
Rico,
It can be overwhelming when you begin. Fortunately, as you see with your curriculum choice, things are getting better. The way has been paved. I give tribute to my mother who battled the authorities and news reporters back in the 70's. She is a true pioneer! I honor her courage!

Your daughter is the one that has to make that choice, ultimately. She has to decide how much interaction with other kids that she wants and needs. That is usually the determining factor.

The second thing - you must be organized, have a plan and work the plan. No deviation will be successful. I made a weekly schedule. My children knew what they had to accomplish by Friday. That gave them a week overview. They could work it however they wanted. They just had to have the work done and an X on every subject for that 5 day working period. This has helped them accomplish strides in the workforce.

My brother graduated with a Master's degree, starting out at A&M and finishing at Duke University. His advice - "Stay organized."

When I started out I wanted to give up when I was halfway through it. My husband said, "I just want you to go until May. Give it until then and you can do whatever you want".

When I got over the six month trial period () I was fine. I didn't think I could go the long haul, but I made the 15 years and it was well worth it. God was with me every step of the way. He provided me with things that I prayed for. It was an awesome experience. My children have NO regrets! That is what made it worth the most to me!
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Old 06-23-2008, 04:23 PM
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Rico,
It can be overwhelming when you begin. Fortunately, as you see with your curriculum choice, things are getting better. The way has been paved. I give tribute to my mother who battled the authorities and news reporters back in the 70's. She is a true pioneer! I honor her courage!

Your daughter is the one that has to make that choice, ultimately. She has to decide how much interaction with other kids that she wants and needs. That is usually the determining factor.

The second thing - you must be organized, have a plan and work the plan. No deviation will be successful. I made a weekly schedule. My children knew what they had to accomplish by Friday. That gave them a week overview. They could work it however they wanted. They just had to have the work done and an X on every subject for that 5 day working period. This has helped them accomplish strides in the workforce.

My brother graduated with a Master's degree, starting out at A&M and finishing at Duke University. His advice - "Stay organized."

When I started out I wanted to give up when I was halfway through it. My husband said, "I just want you to go until May. Give it until then and you can do whatever you want".

When I got over the six month trial period () I was fine. I didn't think I could go the long haul, but I made the 15 years and it was well worth it. God was with me every step of the way. He provided me with things that I prayed for. It was an awesome experience. My children have NO regrets! That is what made it worth the most to me!
Part of my hesitation is that I don't know without a doubt that I will still be working from home through the end of the school year. I am working on some other sources of income to supplement what I am doing now (don't like all my eggs in one basket). If I can get them set up and running successfully by the time school ends next school year, I would be in a much better position to say I will be able to be here for her during the day.
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Part of my hesitation is that I don't know without a doubt that I will still be working from home through the end of the school year. I am working on some other sources of income to supplement what I am doing now (don't like all my eggs in one basket). If I can get them set up and running successfully by the time school ends next school year, I would be in a much better position to say I will be able to be here for her during the day.
I wouldn't worry about it. Isn't she in Elementary? If so, you don't have to worry about pulling her out until around 7th grade. That's when it starts getting dicey.
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I wouldn't worry about it. Isn't she in Elementary? If so, you don't have to worry about pulling her out until around 7th grade. That's when it starts getting dicey.
Dicey in what way?
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Dicey in what way?
Part of the reason is that they are coming of age. 7th Grade is the beginning of the kicker. Not quite a grown person like High School and not a kid anymore. An in between time. It is very trying - hormones, etc.
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Part of the reason is that they are coming of age. 7th Grade is the beginning of the kicker. Not quite a grown person like High School and not a kid anymore. An in between time. It is very trying - hormones, etc.
I am dealing with that phase with my two oldest children. So far, everything is ok. I make a point of being a nosy Dad and letting these kids know they have no rights as far as I am concerned!
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I am dealing with that phase with my two oldest children. So far, everything is ok. I make a point of being a nosy Dad and letting these kids know they have no rights as far as I am concerned!
Right!!! Good Dad! One time my daughter told me she was calling Child Protective Services. I said, "Go ahead. At least I know where I will be sleeping tonight. You don't and won't for several years to come."

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Right!!! Good Dad! One time my daughter told me she was calling Child Protective Services. I said, "Go ahead. At least I know where I will be sleeping tonight. You don't and won't for several years to come."

I'd dial the number for them and give them the ride to the office!!!
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I'd dial the number for them and give them the ride to the office!!!
That's exactly what one of my good friends did. She handed the phone to her daughter - "Here!"

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That's exactly what one of my good friends did. She handed the phone to her daughter - "Here!"

My kids know better than to throw that one in my face! In fact, I don't wait for them to do it. I throw it in their face! "You want me to call the Welfare people to come and get you? One less mouth to feed ain't gonna affect my tax refund one bit! I only need two of you to get the max back!!!!"
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