I'm not refering to bedroom attire, but role playing by acting out scenarios such as pretending man is having affair with the maid, mail lady, doctor, nurse etc.....
Playing patient doctor is not just attire but acting out a sinful act.
My point of view: For a woman that has a tendency toward "jealousy" and "competitiveness" toward her man, this would not work very well, IMO. Ask me? I am just that kind of woman! And it doesn't bother me one bit.
If you want to be intimate with a French maid, leave the keys to the house because it won't belong to you anymore - after I contact my lawyer. At that point, everything you have worked for now belongs to me!
Well, that would hold true to anything......murder, lying - whatever - just because the couple agrees on it doesn't make it right. Those are sins.
"Being intimate" with your spouse isn't a sin and as long as both agree to whatever they want to do - it should be okay.
I have brought this up in the past, but my wife heard a speaker at a womans conference several years back that said the ONLY things not allowed in the bedroom (between a married couple) are "other people, animals, and porn -unless of course you make your own!".
The point being that there have been and will always be people who proclaim all sorts of "rights and wrongs" -mainly "wrongs" when it comes to a married couple being intimate. God did not say "and thou shall only use this position, and with the lights off" when He inspired the Songs of Solomon. Rather, I believe He would be ok with a mirror over the bed if the couple would so choose to do so.
But on the subject of this thread.... Yes, porn (involving other people) is just plain unhealthy in the long run no matter how you cut it. And yes, sex therapists will tell you how it can be used to enhance the immediate act, but it ONLY enhances the here and now and will be extremely detrimental to future intimacy when you find that it takes more and more extreme forms of porn to keep the same level of excitement.
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I have brought this up in the past, but my wife heard a speaker at a womans conference several years back that said the ONLY things not allowed in the bedroom (between a married couple) are "other people, animals, and porn -unless of course you make your own!".
The point being that there have been and will always be people who proclaim all sorts of "rights and wrongs" -mainly "wrongs" when it comes to a married couple being intimate. God did not say "and thou shall only use this position, and with the lights off" when He inspired the Songs of Solomon. Rather, I believe He would be ok with a mirror over the bed if the couple would so choose to do so.
But on the subject of this thread.... Yes, porn (involving other people) is just plain unhealthy in the long run no matter how you cut it. And yes, sex therapists will tell you how it can be used to enhance the immediate act, but it ONLY enhances the here and now and will be extremely detrimental to future intimacy when you find that it takes more and more extreme forms of porn to keep the same level of excitement.
Well, that would hold true to anything......murder, lying - whatever - just because the couple agrees on it doesn't make it right. Those are sins.
"Being intimate" with your spouse isn't a sin and as long as both agree to whatever they want to do - it should be okay.
Should be, yeah. Unless... But, alas, God's list of forbidden activities won't be allowed here, so, I guess we'll all just have to take our chances. Or play it safe and not do anything!
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I have brought this up in the past, but my wife heard a speaker at a womans conference several years back that said the ONLY things not allowed in the bedroom (between a married couple) are "other people, animals, and porn -unless of course you make your own!".
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CGI?
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I suppose since it worked so well for James Cameron. Attach a bunch of full body motion sensors up. Hit record. Do whatever you want to do. Hit the "Render" button. Bingo! French Maid and Jeeves the Butler!
Should be, yeah. Unless... But, alas, God's list of forbidden activities won't be allowed here, so, I guess we'll all just have to take our chances. Or play it safe and not do anything!
14 But strong meat belongeth to them that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil.
KJV
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Today pull up the little weeds,
The sinful thoughts subdue,
Or they will take the reins themselves
And someday master you. --Anon.
The most deadly sins do not leap upon us, they creep up on us.
Should be, yeah. Unless... But, alas, God's list of forbidden activities won't be allowed here, so, I guess we'll all just have to take our chances. Or play it safe and not do anything!
Not having to use extras from the "toy box", so to speak, is the ultimate in a partner, IMO. That is being "totally" in tune with each other. Of course, beautiful lingerie is not a "toy box" item either, also my opinion. Just my two cents.
I just thought of that Carly Simon song:
Nobody does it better
Makes me feel sad for the rest
Nobody does it half as good as you
Baby, you're the best
Love that song!!
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