The Husband is the Head of the Wife

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by ILG

Exactly. The ONLY reason God gave for divorce was adultery. Looks like he did that....not her...

Well, he hasn't yet, but thinks she still needs to tend to him during this divorce preceedings and because she won't he is saying she is going to cause him to have to commit adultery.

How about a little self-control?

[Esther]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

Well, he hasn't yet, but thinks she still needs to tend to him during this divorce preceedings and because she won't he is saying she is going to cause him to have to commit adultery.

How about a little self-control?

You have got to be kidding!!!!

[ILG]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

Well, he hasn't yet, but thinks she still needs to tend to him during this divorce preceedings and because she won't he is saying she is going to cause him to have to commit adultery.

How about a little self-control?

True.

What do you mean abuse when you say he has abused her?

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by ILG

True.

What do you mean abuse when you say he has abused her?

Mental/emotional by belittling her, physical by hitting and pushing/shoving her.

[ILG]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

Mental/emotional by belittling her, physical by hitting and pushing/shoving her.

I see. Just wondering.

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by ILG

I see. Just wondering.

It's been years of it and she's had all she can handle. Promises to change, get help, does for a couple months, reverts back....not a good situation at all.

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

Oh, so much to say here, but I will limit it to just this one stupid thing.

A friend of mine is going through a divorce and her husband said he's going to blame her for him committing adultery since she won't be with him now.

He is abusive with her and they are getting a divorce.........yet it's going to be her fault that he's going to have to sin?

Well, that does hit close to home. So, we have two sides. The women that call me are confessing they are lazy and you are getting calls of abuse.

I can totally see that there are two sides. It is a shame.

When a man abuses a woman and she finds comfort in another, well, I can't blame her, unless her husband straightens up his act and does a turn around there is no hope in that situation.

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by Pressing-On

Well, that does hit close to home. So, we have two sides. The women that call me are confessing they are lazy and you are getting calls of abuse.

I can totally see that there are two sides. It is a shame.

When a man abuses a woman and she finds comfort in another, well, I can't blame her, unless her husband straightens up his act and does a turn around there is no hope in that situation.

That's not what I was explaining......re-read it.

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by ILG

There is some truth that people do think that way.



Women are never to blame for a man's promiscuity. She may contribute to his decision by being "unaccessible" but she isn't the one who decided to be promiscuous.

Contributing is kinda the blame, IMO. I wouldn't blame my husband if I didn't take care of him and someone else wanted to because I know it is what I need to and want to do.

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by ILG

True.

What do you mean abuse when you say he has abused her?

That's what I was commenting on. I'm not giving up anything for a man that abuses me physically.