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Originally Posted by Thad
I'm not sure how big durham is- it's connected to raliegh too isn't it ?
stockton has 300,000 people but they also have several Branch works plus other Oneness and UPC churches that are not their Branch works
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I feel I have to speak up here.
I am a member of the Raleigh UPC, and Durham is a neighboring city, but other than our two churches being UPCI, there is no connection.
What I must speak out against is the negative, fault finding spirits here.
People are so busy tearing into men of God and quite obviously don't even have a clue of the facts. All up in the koolaid and don't even know the flavor.
So busy bashing people who HAVE thriving growing churches. Claiming fact-less claims and accusing of not winning souls etc.
What are YOU doing to win souls and grow churches while you are here on the Internet tearing a brother down?
So you disagree with their stand on an issue. Fine, discuss YOUR opinions and why you believe it. And if you wish, fight it through the proper channels. But this murmuring, and bickering, and fact-less fault finding and strife filled comments and accusations
ARE NOT OF GOD no matter how one "justifies" it. If any of you who are involved in this kind of mess (on a public forum nonetheless) are pastors, you REALLY need to check yourselves because that kind of attitude is embarrassing for "mere" secular Christians, and absolutely over the line for someone who calls themselves a minister of the Gospel.
You want to complain about how someones standard is "running converts away". Well what in the world do you think crud talk like has been going on here is doing to new people?
Inspiring them to become one of us?
You are bashing people for doing the same thing you are, under a different name.
Oh how easily we forget that we ALL regularly need a check up, from the neck up.
And whats all this focus on numbers and judging ones Christianity and pastoral validity on numbers? Some are so quick to cast stones here.
Well what about you stone throwers, how "big" is YOUR church? How long has it been there? Did YOU help make it what it is, or did you just show up for the ride? Do you actually have anything to contribute here, or are you just content to criticize the ministry and and their beliefs?
(Thad, sorry to hijack your post like this, I hope you will forgive me

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