Should Churches Teach On Sex ?

[SDG]

Originally Posted by SoCaliUPC

That is true. I think one of the biggest things is the PROLIFERATION of internet-sex sites....instant access...instant gratification...and just a few clicks away. You don't see a lot of that stuff on TV and the movies.

Women now have sex toy parties instead of tupperware parties ... I did say electronic forms of media, btw.

[Felicity]

Originally Posted by J-Roc

And I don't recall Felicity using the word *SOLELY*....I think she was making an observation that young women seem to think they need these added tools...and I think she first wants to focus on how good relating between couples is key to good sex....that's the highlight I got from her post....

Absolutely! And then it all went downhill from there. Well this whole thread has had it's *ups and downs* actually.

Oops!

[Trouvere]

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea

Women now have sex toy parties instead of tupperware parties ... I did say electronic forms of media, btw.

uh...name the women? Sorry but the word....WOMEN is way too general.
Let me correct you.We now have Pampered Chef parties because we have
learned that if you buy the products the lady cooks them for you and your
friends and all you have to do is invite friends over and buy potato peelers
and garlic presses.Oh yeah and we shoe shop.

[SoCaliUPC]

Originally Posted by J-Roc

And I don't recall Felicity using the word *SOLELY*....I think she was making an observation that young women seem to think they need these added tools...and I think she first wants to focus on how good relating between couples is key to good sex....that's the highlight I got from her post....

Oh....let me leave out the word solely...she said....TV and Movies play a part.

As for the rest...I was not privy to the conversation and I don't know if it is as much an observation as it is an assumption. However, I think the rest of the bolded part is accurate.

[SoCaliUPC]

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea

Women now have sex toy parties instead of tupperware parties ... I did say electronic forms of media, btw.

Must have skipped that.

I've heard about some of those parties.

[SDG]

Originally Posted by SoCaliUPC

Must have skipped that.

I've heard about some of those parties.

I worked w/ a teacher colleague who organized them .... it was her part-time gig.

[Felicity]

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea

Women now have sex toy parties instead of tupperware parties ... I did say electronic forms of media, btw.

These young women (young Pentecostal women by the way and one is marrying a preacher next Saturday!) have mentioned things in casual conversation that I was pretty amazed at. I'm thinking to myself ........ "Good heavens! Why do they think they need these things? They're just newlyweds for goodness sake. What's wrong with these young men that these girls think they need this stuff?!!"

They make me feel pretty archaic in a way, and yet I remember how good it was and how much better it gets and I'm thinking ... "The poor dear things. They're really short-selling themselves. They need to let time and familiarity and natural curiosity and love and desire be their guide into the wonderful awesome intimacy 2 people can experience that only gets deeper and more profound as time goes on.

[SoCaliUPC]

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea

I worked w/ a teacher colleague who organized them .... it was her part-time gig.

...and from what I have heard....not a bad gig as well....$$$$$$.

[Trouvere]

Originally Posted by Daniel Alicea

I worked w/ a teacher colleague who organized them .... it was her part-time gig.

Not apostolic right? Because if she was she would have known to just buy more
RED HIGH HEELED SHOES

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

I'm going to get myself in trouble on this thread, but I'll try to be good.

I think a lot of women need to learn to love themselves and their bodies and stop trying to compare themselves to Victoria Secrets models.

If there is unfulfillment in the bedroom many times it's because of all the hangups or unforgiven sins that are gathered up along the way and then never dealt with in a proper instructional, godly setting.

God DID create this pleasure for married couples just simply for that....pleasure and to "become one". We've touched on it so many times before, but it should be something beautiful, spiritual, loving and full of pleasure for both! Anything less and we are short-changing ourselves and the gift that God has given two married people!

I'll jump off my soap-box since I'm the resident old single lady!

Maybe this will redeem me that I said earlier.