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Old 11-11-2010, 01:37 PM
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one day a week?

that might be OK for some but not for others.

one day a month might be OK for some but not for others

but, remember, according to 1 Corinthians 7 each partner is told not to with hold sex without permission from the other partner. The wife is to consider his needs and the husband is to consider her needs.
Where does the husband have to consider hers? What version you reading?

This is something that takes compromise for sure.

Oh boy, now we are getting more off track.
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Old 11-11-2010, 01:41 PM
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Is it sex on Sundays or sex before praying/worshipping/gathering? Which is it, DM?
the latter and what's the big deal? I have been single and celibate for 10 years. So I'm not knockin ya Renda.
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Old 11-11-2010, 01:42 PM
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the latter and what's the big deal? I have been single and celibate for 10 years. So I'm not knockin ya Renda.
So, then you really don't have to worry about this anyway!
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Old 11-11-2010, 01:43 PM
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Nahkoe just reverse it. You can have carnal sex AFTER church. All that is important is coming to "church" blameless. Any other time in our week is not as important. DM?
This brings up an interesting question. If there is to be no sex before church, how long is 'before"? Technically having sex right after service, lets say in the parking lot, is "before" the next service whenever it happens to be.
Kind of like the movie Gremlins where they were not allowed to feed him "after" midnight. OK, so WHEN were they allowed to feed him again?

And to comment on Chris's post about actually worshiping during sex..... uh, that is just weird. Next thing you know, someone will be singing "I'm a pentecostal" during the act. More like "I'm..... a..... PENT...E..... Costollllllllllllllllll"

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So, then you really don't have to worry about this anyway!
Just wanted to have a lively conversation on AFF. No harm intended.
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Just wanted to have a lively conversation on AFF. No harm intended.
Well, that you did!

Nothing better than a good church service, a Sunday afternoon "nap" and service that night. Great way to start off the week.
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the latter and what's the big deal? I have been single and celibate for 10 years. So I'm not knockin ya Renda.
praying, worshipping, gathering?

Well then that changes the whole context of what we are saying. How long should we wait. 1 hour? 3? 5?

How is that celibacy working out for you?

Makes sense though because there is beauty in marital sex. I can understand how someone having pre-marital sex or masturbation with pornography just before a gathering could feel guilty and "impure."
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praying, worshipping, gathering?

Well then that changes the whole context of what we are saying. How long should we wait. 1 hour? 3? 5?
10 years.
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This brings up an interesting question. If there is to be no sex before church, how long is 'before"? Technically having sex right after service, lets say in the parking lot, is "before" the next service whenever it happens to be.
Kind of like the movie Gremlins where they were not allowed to feed him "after" midnight. OK, so WHEN were they allowed to feed him again?

And to comment on Chris's post about actually worshiping during sex..... uh, that is just weird. Next thing you know, someone will be singing "I'm a pentecostal" during the act. More like "I'm..... a..... PENT...E..... Costollllllllllllllllll"
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Where does the husband have to consider hers? What version you reading?
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1 Corinthians 7:1-5
1 Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me:
It is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. NKJV

1 Now regarding the questions you asked in your letter. Yes, it is good to live a celibate life. 2 But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband.
3 The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs. 4 The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife.
5 Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
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1 Now, getting down to the questions you asked in your letter to me. First, Is it a good thing to have sexual relations? 2-6Certainly—but only within a certain context. It's good for a man to have a wife, and for a woman to have a husband. Sexual drives are strong, but marriage is strong enough to contain them and provide for a balanced and fulfilling sexual life in a world of sexual disorder. The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. Abstaining from sex is permissible for a period of time if you both agree to it, and if it's for the purposes of prayer and fasting—but only for such times. Then come back together again. Satan has an ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it. I'm not, understand, commanding these periods of abstinence—only providing my best counsel if you should choose them. The Message
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