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Originally Posted by RandyWayne
I'm on other forums as well, mainly aquarium ones, and they are all usually pretty cordial.
The BIG difference is that none of these forums have discussions about lifestyles and condemning others who don't fit a particular one. Now granted we have had some pretty spirited talks about the pro's and con's of having a trickle filter on a reef tank (I am against it for all those who may be wondering) but no one has EVER used the word "backslidder!" when talking about someone who used to use one but no longer does.
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I'm on a cow/homesteading type forum and a few years back we had a religious discussion in earnest. There were lots of angry posts, things got out of control and someone went and started a Christian cow/homesteading type forum... There was a big exodus from one forum to the other of, presumably, the Christians... It only took a couple of months for these people, many of whom had been together for years on the other forum, to start on issues of doctrine and literally eat each other alive. Participation dropped off to nil as one after the other did not get their way about something and left...
In the mean time the other fourm banned discussion of religion and now sticks to cows/homesteading and every other related topic and things are again peaceful.
The moral of the story is I think we do pretty good for handling such hot-potato issues