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Originally Posted by seguidordejesus
Bro., how would you have preferred her pastor to handle the situation? I sincerely would like to know.
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I am not saying he handled it right; that is not my point.
But I don't think it is responsible to denigrate someone's spiritual leadership publicly or privately.
For one thing, we do not know the whole story.
There are always two sides, at least.
What we read might be absolutely and completely accurate...or it might not.
This is the internet.
I have pastored people who live in a constant state of mullygrubs, and have spent many hours talking with them and trying to encourage them. In some cases, they never take advice, and don't really want help, just attention. With those folks, at some point, you have to wean them off the constant draining process of listening to the same complaints over and over again with no progress.
Now, if what we read is an accurate picture, I would have taken some time and explained that a woman's body goes through many hormonal changes after childbirth, and tried to encourage the good sister to recognize that it is somewhat natural to feel emotions going out of control. I might have recommended that she see a doctor.
Regarding the Holy Ghost, I would take her to the Word and talk to her about walking by faith and not sight; I would point out the fruit of the Spirit in her life (hopefully--if there was some
) and do my best to build her faith all I could.
Something along those lines.
What bugged me about Rhoni's post was that rather than just addressing the issue, she had to start out by criticizing the pastor's reported handling of the situation.
I have lived long enough to know that things aren't always as they seem, and that is especially true on the internet.