Irreconcilable Differences - Page 10

Nahum · #91 05-31-2007, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by RevDWW

:sshhh So did I hear PP is talking D-I-V-O-R-C-E and buying a two wheeled personal transportation vehicle????

killinme

Nah.....anyone women that put up with him for 19 years is in it for the long haul.......

Not possible, I can't afford the divorce or the two-wheeled thingy.

tamor · #92 05-31-2007, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Pastor Poster

Not possible, I can't afford the divorce or the two-wheeled thingy.

#93 05-31-2007, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by RevDWW

:sshhh So did I hear PP is talking D-I-V-O-R-C-E and buying a two wheeled personal transportation vehicle????

No offense, bro, it's not cool to joke about divorce... it's not a laughing matter

Jekyll · #94 05-31-2007, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Pastor Poster

I wonder if they hurt their oldest by staying together? He ended up angry, bitter and a murderer. Think about it.

Usually, if a couple can't resolve their non-vow-breaking behaviour and be mature enough to uphold their respective integrity, they are not responisble enough to raise kids, so the problem is not the "bad" marriage

RevDWW · #95 05-31-2007, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Ronzo

No offense, bro, it's not cool to joke about divorce... it's not a laughing matter

Your point is well taken. Divorce is quite serious. My apologies to you if I have offended. I was mainly poking fun at H2H asking if PP was thinking of getting a divorce.

#96 05-31-2007, 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Pastor Poster

I used to mock people who made that kind of claim to end a marriage.

Irreconcilable differences.

I used to think that there was no difference so great that a resolution could not be reached. I used to think that the "irreconcilable differences" claim was just an excuse to get out of a marriage, and swap up. But the older I get, the more I realize there really are some differences that cannot be resolved.

Understand that I am not excusing divorce. I still believe that a person has a moral obligation to stand by the vows they made to their spouse, and to God. But I can see how two people can diverge after a while. How life can effect major personality changes. So much so, that a person becomes unrecognizable after a while. This is why quality time in marriage must have its place. It minimizes the differences as people grow together.

I have several questions about "irreconcilable differences".

How should we handle the irreconcilable differences that arise in our lives outside of marriage?
How long do you stay with an employer you are consistently at odds with?
How long do you stay in an organization you disagree with?
How long do you stay in a church that is headed in a different direction than you want to go?

What level of disagreement is tolerable and acceptable? At what point do you cut bait and run?

Irreconcilable differences. ~ I think it's a nice way of saying it's none of your business we rather not share our dirty launder with the rest of the world~

SDG · #97 05-31-2007, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by CupCake

Irreconcilable differences. ~ I think it's a nice way of saying it's none of your business we rather not share our dirty launder with the rest of the world~

Well ...well ... well ... WHERE U BEEN, Cupcake????