Apostolic Friends Forum
Tab Menu 1
Go Back   Apostolic Friends Forum > The Foyer > The Information Station
Facebook

Notices

The Information Station A help forum with answers to frequently asked questions - includes our Forum Rules and updates or announcements from the Admin Team.


Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 02-10-2007, 09:23 PM
rrford's Avatar
rrford rrford is offline
Registered Member


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 2,792
How To Not Get Offended

Since we have a thread titled "How To Apologize" it seemed only fitting to offer this counter balance.

Sure, offenses do happen. Even Jesus said they would and we know He is never wrong. A legitimate offense is worthy of a legitimate apology.

But there are those thin skinned individuals who come around looking for reasons to get offended. There are several ways to avoid this. First of all, don't come here! That really is the easiest solution. But if you are addicted and lack that type of self-control then you will need further assistance to avoid being offended.

We will next consider the Word. "Great peace have they which love thy law and NOTHING shall offend them." Basically that is saying that if you get offended you don't love the law of God. Simple enough? I sure hope so.

Next, for those of you who want to wear your feelings on your shirt sleeves, might I suggest wearing two or three shirts anytime you post here? That way you can get offended several times before making an issue of it.

Onward, to those who have deep seated emotional and spiritual issues, this is absolutely the last place you need to be. This is not where you come to relive past abuses, misuses, etc. etc. We are glad you are here. But we are not here to provide counsel for issues that can only be reconciled between you and God. I know we can be more fun to talk to and you will get some answers here that God won't give you, but hey, it really is better to take those issues to Him.

There is an Abuse Thread and a Cry Room available. If necessary we can probably find some directions on how to build a bridge and how to cry a river. Getting over it is up to you though.

That being said, I am glad everyone is here. And I would appreciate no one taking issue with this thread or my tone in stating what I have. I am fragile and get offended very easily and would hate for you to have to apologize to me for your ignorant comments.
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 02-10-2007, 09:28 PM
seguidordejesus's Avatar
seguidordejesus seguidordejesus is offline
Registered Member


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: South Central Texas
Posts: 2,799
Ah shaddup!
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 02-10-2007, 09:33 PM
secretplace secretplace is offline
God is good...yes He's good


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 112
Quote:
Originally Posted by rrford View Post
Since we have a thread titled "How To Apologize" it seemed only fitting to offer this counter balance.

Sure, offenses do happen. Even Jesus said they would and we know He is never wrong. A legitimate offense is worthy of a legitimate apology.

But there are those thin skinned individuals who come around looking for reasons to get offended. There are several ways to avoid this. First of all, don't come here! That really is the easiest solution. But if you are addicted and lack that type of self-control then you will need further assistance to avoid being offended.

We will next consider the Word. [I]"Great peace have they which love thy law and NOTHING shall offend them."[/I] Basically that is saying that if you get offended you don't love the law of God. Simple enough? I sure hope so.

Next, for those of you who want to wear your feelings on your shirt sleeves, might I suggest wearing two or three shirts anytime you post here? That way you can get offended several times before making an issue of it.

Onward, to those who have deep seated emotional and spiritual issues, this is absolutely the last place you need to be. This is not where you come to relive past abuses, misuses, etc. etc. We are glad you are here. But we are not here to provide counsel for issues that can only be reconciled between you and God. I know we can be more fun to talk to and you will get some answers here that God won't give you, but hey, it really is better to take those issues to Him.

There is an Abuse Thread and a Cry Room available. If necessary we can probably find some directions on how to build a bridge and how to cry a river. Getting over it is up to you though.

That being said, I am glad everyone is here. And I would appreciate no one taking issue with this thread or my tone in stating what I have. I am fragile and get offended very easily and would hate for you to have to apologize to me for your ignorant comments.
I wonder if that scripture really means what you're stating?? It seems a bit "super human" to expect that nothing shall ever offend a person who loves God's word. Maybe it means the person shall never be offended by the Word of God if you love it. Just wondering...not being difficult.
__________________
He that dwelleth in the "secret place" of the most high shall abide under the shadow of the almighty.
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 02-10-2007, 09:42 PM
rrford's Avatar
rrford rrford is offline
Registered Member


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 2,792
Quote:
Originally Posted by secretplace View Post
I wonder if that scripture really means what you're stating?? It seems a bit "super human" to expect that nothing shall ever offend a person who loves God's word. Maybe it means the person shall never be offended by the Word of God if you love it. Just wondering...not being difficult.
Technically, it does not mean that one won't get their feelings hurt and such, but they will not be tempted to quit serving God over offenses.

But hey, this is an open Forum and I can interpret the Word to mean what I want it to, can't I?
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 02-10-2007, 09:44 PM
secretplace secretplace is offline
God is good...yes He's good


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Posts: 112
Quote:
Originally Posted by rrford View Post
Technically, it does not mean that one won't get their feelings hurt and such, but they will not be tempted to quit serving God over offenses.

But hey, this is an open Forum and I can interpret the Word to mean what I want it to, can't I?
I understand you better now...thanks.
__________________
He that dwelleth in the "secret place" of the most high shall abide under the shadow of the almighty.
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 02-10-2007, 09:46 PM
Ronzo
Guest


 
Posts: n/a
Quote:
How To Not Get Offended

Don't post on forums.
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 02-10-2007, 09:47 PM
Margies3's Avatar
Margies3 Margies3 is offline
Registered Member


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Ohio
Posts: 7,374
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ronzo View Post
Don't post on forums.
No, Ron, you can POST on forums. You just can't READ on forums. I've never yet been offended by something I said. I may have been offended by something that someone else said tho.
__________________
Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of a battle ! ! ! !
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 02-10-2007, 09:47 PM
HideBuster
Guest


 
Posts: n/a
One way is to keep your mouth closed
Reply With Quote
  #9  
Old 02-10-2007, 09:48 PM
ManOfWord's Avatar
ManOfWord ManOfWord is offline
Honorary Admin


 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Sandusky, Ohio
Posts: 6,287
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ronzo View Post
Don't post on forums.

or.......................



P R O Z A C

__________________
"Those who go after the "Sauls" among us often slay the Davids among us." Gene Edwards
Executive Servant
http://www.newlife-church.org
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 02-10-2007, 09:48 PM
Ronzo
Guest


 
Posts: n/a
Quote:
Originally Posted by Margies3 View Post
No, Ron, you can POST on forums. You just can't READ on forums. I've never yet been offended by something I said. I may have been offended by something that someone else said tho.
True... you said what I meant.

lol
Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump

 
User Infomation
Your Avatar

Latest Threads
- by jfrog
- by Salome
- by Amanah

Help Support AFF!

Advertisement




All times are GMT -6. The time now is 05:51 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.5
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.