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Old 06-06-2007, 08:44 AM
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Yesh, thash correct
Shouldn't that be "thrash correct"?
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Old 06-06-2007, 08:46 AM
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There seems to be two types of singles… the young unmarried and then the group of unmarried folk who are divorced or widowed people who struggle with loneliness. Online there are a couple of sites that are there to help singles meet each other.

www.Apostolicsinglesnetwork.com is the best site in my opinion. There is another site here http://www.apostolicsingles.net/ I’ve been a member of both. I’ve met several people and had a few relationships. I’ve met a little bit of everything .. some still friends… good friends… to some plain wacky. I’ve spent very little time there in the last 6-9 months though, not really interested anymore.

I guess the singles sites are a good way to meet people, but I do have a concern. It seems some have great success and get married… divorced… and married again. My sister keeps me informed of those who end up marrying.. divorcing and back on the site to find another mate. That just sickens me… I guess I am different.. I don’t believe in divorce remarrying stuff and it really grieves me to see so much in our faith. I think we have lost the importance of commitment.. those are vows taken before God.

I’ve been to a few singles outings here in Indiana… was a little disappointed in most, but did go to one in January that I was strengthened spiritually and God really spoke to my heart on some things. I was very glad I went… it was actually quite fun too.

In Memphis they have a Conference at the end of this month and I haven’t heard anything but Good about it, but I haven’t been. My two sisters have and really liked it.

My church has a singles group that focuses on outreach to the community and has seen several women come to the Lord from the local women’s shelter. The focus is not on dating/marrying….but fellowship and ministry. I think it is a great ministry although it is made up of mostly women (probably 20) with 3 single men. the way it always is...
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I dunno... should it?
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I dunno... should it?
I thought you were making a pun of the word shingles. And I thought that word would have been thrash........ Oh well, an ill attempt at humor. I wasn't funny.......
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There's a lot worse things than being "shingle"..........
yep... you are right.
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Old 06-06-2007, 08:50 AM
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I gotta tell ya... I'm not really happy about being single again...

This is not where I saw my life headed 4 years ago when I got married...

It's hard.
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Old 06-06-2007, 08:52 AM
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I gotta tell ya... I'm not really happy about being single again...

This is not where I saw my life headed 4 years ago when I got married...

It's hard.

Know the feeling. Do you have children?
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Old 06-06-2007, 08:56 AM
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Know the feeling. Do you have children?
Thankfully, no.

It could be a lot worse, and I know it.

I am VERY thankful that I got off as 'easy' as I have.


I know men that have had their kids taken from them. There is none of that here.

I know men that have gone into debt during this type of thing. There is none of that here.

I know men that have come home and found eveything, including the carpet, GONE. There is none of that here.

I know men that have gone through a lot worse than I am going through... (I know women who have suffered those same types of issues as well, not just men).

I thank God that it wasn't much worse and it wasn't more complicated.


I will survive this and there are no little hearts being punctured as a result of it.
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I gotta tell ya... I'm not really happy about being single again...

This is not where I saw my life headed 4 years ago when I got married...

It's hard.
I understand.....I didn't say I was happy about it - just that there are some things worse.

After being a family unit for over 24 years, it's an adjustment for sure. I went through the "what's my role in life now" phase the first couple years and this past year, I've settled into knowing my role is to be ME, love God, be there for my kids still and enjoy the rest of my life.

IF there is someone that God has for me to share the rest of my life, then whoohoo, an extra benefit. If not, I'll still be good.
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Old 06-06-2007, 09:26 AM
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I understand.....I didn't say I was happy about it - just that there are some things worse.

After being a family unit for over 24 years, it's an adjustment for sure. I went through the "what's my role in life now" phase the first couple years and this past year, I've settled into knowing my role is to be ME, love God, be there for my kids still and enjoy the rest of my life.

IF there is someone that God has for me to share the rest of my life, then whoohoo, an extra benefit. If not, I'll still be good.
All things I'm still dealing with and working through for myself right now... It's only been a month and a half for me...
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