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11-11-2008, 11:50 AM
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Re: Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)
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Originally Posted by aak1972
As i stated on a different post I have heard thousands of sermons by hundreds of preachers. But this is a first for me. I do not understand the need for a pastor to get involved in every aspect of your life. The Bible refers to a pastor as a shepherd. A shepherd leads his sheep. A shepherd not a policeman, a counceler, an accountant etc etc.
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Paul addressed sex. 
There does need to be teaching on sex, for SURE. I have heard so many ignorant ideas over the years, and plenty from ministers as well as laymen. However, it doesn't need to go so far as to give specific instructions, IMO, and should at least be in an all adult setting.
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11-11-2008, 11:51 AM
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Re: Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)
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I can't believe no one has said this yet - Seven Days of Sex Makes One Weak!
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"God, send me anywhere, only go with me. Lay any burden on me, only sustain me. And sever any tie in my heart except the tie that binds my heart to Yours."
--David Livingstone
"To see no being, not God’s or any, but you also go thither,
To see no possession but you may possess it—enjoying all without labor or purchase—
abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
--Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass, Song of the Open Road
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11-11-2008, 11:53 AM
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Re: Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)
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Originally Posted by MissBrattified
That said. Jeff and I agreed when we got married that we wouldn't take grudges to bed with us, and that we would NOT use sex as a weapon against each other, and both of us have kept that commitment. I have ZERO patience with women who say, "Okay, buddy, no sex until you toe the line." No, work out the problem so you CAN have sex. Don't use it against your husband as a way to control him. And since men do (generally) have a greater sex drive than women, then it should be a given that sometimes there needs to be sex when he's the only who is in the mood.
As for men...well, it's cliched but TRUE...sex starts in the kitchen.
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Very good post Miss Brat. However, I would also say that I have zero tolerance for men who pressure their wives into sex when they are not willing to work out the problem. I just felt that the ZERO tolerance for women needed to go both ways.
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11-11-2008, 11:53 AM
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Re: Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)
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I can't believe no one has said this yet - Seven Days of Sex Makes One Weak!
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How is that possible, Renda? 
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11-11-2008, 12:00 PM
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Re: Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)
I just sing this to my wife and she gets weak in the knees---from laughter!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DDZwN86xCJI
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11-11-2008, 12:46 PM
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Re: Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)
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Very good post Miss Brat. However, I would also say that I have zero tolerance for men who pressure their wives into sex when they are not willing to work out the problem. I just felt that the ZERO tolerance for women needed to go both ways.
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I think I said that, too. (in a nutshell) But I'm a woman, so I feel a little more free to address how a woman should act, than a man. Kind of like "I can talk smack about my family, but you can't." 
I've just been around more than a few women who complained about sex, talked about using it against their husbands, lying and saying they're on their periods when they aren't, acting like their husbands are pervs for wanting sex (so often), etc. I find that to be very off-putting within the ranks of my own gender, and I don't think it's how a Christian woman should treat her relationship with her husband, sexual or otherwise.
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"God, send me anywhere, only go with me. Lay any burden on me, only sustain me. And sever any tie in my heart except the tie that binds my heart to Yours."
--David Livingstone
"To see no being, not God’s or any, but you also go thither,
To see no possession but you may possess it—enjoying all without labor or purchase—
abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
--Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass, Song of the Open Road
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11-11-2008, 01:11 PM
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Re: Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)
I imagine some women will be glad or hope the cramps start early.......
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11-11-2008, 01:16 PM
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Re: Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)
So if he's over stepping to advise married couples to enjoy sex with each other for 7 days straight, would he be even more out of line to suggest or prohibit what positions or actions should be done?
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11-11-2008, 01:17 PM
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Re: Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)
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Originally Posted by 1399
Can sex become "legalistic"?
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Legalistic? lol
Legalism is doing things to earn righteousness.
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11-11-2008, 01:23 PM
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Re: Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)
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Originally Posted by 1399
So if he's over stepping to advise married couples to enjoy sex with each other for 7 days straight, would he be even more out of line to suggest or prohibit what positions or actions should be done?
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Did he do that?
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"God, send me anywhere, only go with me. Lay any burden on me, only sustain me. And sever any tie in my heart except the tie that binds my heart to Yours."
--David Livingstone
"To see no being, not God’s or any, but you also go thither,
To see no possession but you may possess it—enjoying all without labor or purchase—
abstracting the feast, yet not abstracting one particle of it;…."
--Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass, Song of the Open Road
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