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Simply tell the truth about you believe and don't try to cloak it in the gobbeldegook of pentecostal phrases and cute sayings that I have heard for decades. That really shouldn't be so hard.

I have no problem stating what I believe and I don't have to cloak my beliefs in any manner whatsoever. I believe that a person is rapture ready at genuine repentance and if they have truly repented should be water baptized and receive the gift of the HG. Pretty simple to me. But then, that's simple me.
This kind of post does not help MOW and others. You guys come here on the pretense of discussing this but then you start using emotive and pejorative words

The ONLY purpose of that is to get the other person emotionally riled up and NOT to get to the actual issue...the truth.

How do you know Mizpeh is not saying exactly what she believes? Maybe she feels a personal conviction of taking the authority to condemn someone to hell, into her own hands when that final answer is His only?
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Mizpeh, you can pray for me anytime you want and I will accept it as I know your motives are pure and you have a sincere heart after God. Dan knows I need the prayer too.

I was actually 8 years old but I wasn't stupid. If the new birth was ACTS 2:38 then I could logically follow the conclusion on out to hellfire if I didn't speak in tongues. I have probably spoke in tongues at various times in my life so I am "safe" but I am almost positive that the night that I said I received the Holy Spirit I didn't really speak in tongues.

I do want everyone to speak in tongues and feel the awesome power of God but I am very concerned with the damage that can be done in a person's walk with God when they are taught that they have to achieve this elite moment in time when God decides they are repentant enough to receive his spirit. I have said before that it is like slot machine church. We go to the altar over and over and all of a sudden we get a blessing and we have our fix until the next random time God decides that we are worthy of his power. We then become addicts just hoping and praying that it will happen again and many go years before they get their fix. Never missing a church service because this might be the blow out service and they could have missed their time.

This goes against the very message that the Gospel is a gift from God and that our sins have been paid for by what Christ did for us. It also goes against much of orthodox Christianity that seems to state that we are born again by God and not because of our own ability. I am convinced that these improper teachings on the Gospel lead to much nervousness about the rapture and security of our salvation.
maybe we should be praying for Dan since it seems he has BOTH FEET now stuck squarely in his mouth!
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I have to agree with Mizpeh. Once again we've made this a discussion about THEM in a pejorative way and not rather about what is the truth doctrinally

Why should I run around and tell people "You are going to hell"? The bible says

Luk 6:37 Judge not, and you shall not be judged. Condemn not, and you shall not be condemned. Forgive, and you shall be forgiven.

Yet over and over I see other Christians trying to force other Christians into breaking this.

The word is the revelation of God. That is what we are called to teach and preach. I could be wrong about somethings. I know I am right that God is very merciful. It's HIS kingdom not anyone elses.
See my post from above:

I understand what you believe and could take your side, from what I was taught for decades, and promote it quite well. I do understand that 3 steppers don't normally come out and literally state that unless someone speaks in tongues, they are going to hell.

However, the logical conclusion of that soteriology, is that a person is NOT saved unless they have spoken in tongues and therefore will not go to heaven because they are none of His and therefore will logically go to hell. That is the logical progression of that particular belief paradigm.

What bothers me about all of this is that a person can truly repent, get baptized, live a sanctified life and not have spoken in tongues and they're not rapture ready.

Conversely, a person can truly repent, receive the HG speaking in tongues, life a sanctified life, and not have been baptized in Jesus; name and they're still not rapture ready.

So, it appears to me, that the most important thing is NOT that their lives have changed due to a sincere surrender to the Lord, it is the completion of a 3 step paradigm. Their relationship with the Lord is of lesser importance than their completion of the 3 step plan. So the REAL deal is that these people are "damned" if they do and "damned" if they don't. Who is really getting the short shrift here?
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This kind of post does not help MOW and others. You guys come here on the pretense of discussing this but then you start using emotive and pejorative words

The ONLY purpose of that is to get the other person emotionally riled up and NOT to get to the actual issue...the truth.

How do you know Mizpeh is not saying exactly what she believes? Maybe she feels a personal conviction of taking the authority to condemn someone to hell, into her own hands when that final answer is His only?
Let me categorically say that it is NOT my intention to get anyone riled up and it doesn't help your cause to accuse me of doing so. How do you know that is my intent? Did you ask me if that was what I was trying to do? That's the pot calling the kettle black, Prax.

Let me rephrase this to better reflect what I was trying to say:

Simply tell the truth about you believe. Try not to cloak it in the gobbeldegook of pentecostal phrases and cute sayings that I have heard for decades. That really shouldn't be so hard.

I have no problem stating what I believe and I don't have to cloak my beliefs in any manner whatsoever. I believe that a person is rapture ready at genuine repentance and if they have truly repented should be water baptized and receive the gift of the HG. Pretty simple to me. But then, that's simple me.

The above was not meant to be a personal criticism of Miz is any way and was pointing out my observation of being in OP ranks for decades.


However, I, once again, stand by what I said. The truth about the soteriology of the 3 steppers HAS been cloaked in the gobbledegook of pentecostal phrases. I have heard them and used them myself. When people asked me if they had to speak in tongues to get to heaven I would dance around it and juke and jive just like I was taught to. I would get upset just like some do here as well. I would use the "Well, you know the word is our Judge" line. They just wanted a straight answer to a straight question, "Does it take speaking in tongues to be saved? Can I get to heaven without speaking in tongues?"

The respectful answer is something along these lines, "Well, I honestly believe that is what the Bible says."

I have been around too long to disregard the catch phrases and and "dodges" to these types of questions from honest people who really DO get where that viewpoint leads. That is why they ask the questions in the first place. If some don't like having to deal with that, then maybe they should re-evaluate the position.
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Did you ever read the very very long thread MOW started awhile back?

JT, some folks will say 3 steppers are playing the judge not matter how they express their beliefs. So is it worth it to get into a discussion with someone who is baiting the other person to give a direct answer when they know they are will be damned if they do and damned if they don't?

Let's take this a step further, evangelicals say a believer is justified AT faith. That means they are saved before repentance. An evangelical would lay the same accusation at the feet of 1 steppers that 1 stepper lay at the feet of 3 steppers.
I believe one is saved at repentance. To some I am right and some I am wrong.

I did read the MOW thread at first then was off here awhile and didn't ever catch up really. I know that accusations are thrown here and there by each side, but if one is true about what they believe that is all that can be asked. But the treatment that some 1steppers get from the 3steppers are if we are an ugly duckling of the movement. Some 1 steppers take it too far as well. Neither said should act as if they hold the whole truth. Neither does. If they did there would be no more need for God.
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See my post from above:

I understand what you believe and could take your side, from what I was taught for decades, and promote it quite well.
I don't think you really know what I believe MOW, but that is really not the point. The point is attitude amongst brethren. Or are we brethren?

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I do understand that 3 steppers don't normally come out and literally state that unless someone speaks in tongues, they are going to hell.
Well is it a regular practice of One steppers to run around and tell people they are going to burn in hell, just like that? How about JWs? Are three steppers going to hell because they DON'T believe the One step and thus in your theology have really added to the word of God and even added works to their salvation? Do you regularly tell them they are going to hell even if your theology "might" essentially condemn them when the logical conclusion is followed?

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However, the logical conclusion of that soteriology, is that a person is NOT saved unless they have spoken in tongues and therefore will not go to heaven because they are none of His and therefore will logically go to hell. That is the logical progression of that particular belief paradigm.
Well This is what I have seen...I have seen a lot of nasty, emotive and pejorative arguments tossed out that essentially pegs 3 steppers of relying on works. Follow the logical conclusion of that. They argue that the three steppers have a false soteriology..so then are three steppers saved? If a 1 Stepper argues salvation comes at Faith alone, at Repentance what is the logical conclusion then? The three steppers teach a false doctrine? False teachers? Pharisees? Legalists? What other pejorative terms have we seen? And those terms carry the connotation of condemnation...legalists are not really saved are they? Pharisees are not really saved, are they? Right?

Do you do that?

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What bothers me about all of this is that a person can truly repent, get baptized, live a sanctified life and not have spoken in tongues and they're not rapture ready.
Why should that bother you? That's their view. How about you? Maybe what bothers THEM is that you don't get peopel rapture ready by telling them all they need to do is repent and that's it? Im not saying that is true, but my point is it always works both ways. It is therefore offensive then to try to FORCE someone to condemn others to hell verbally when they feel direct condemnation is God's perogative and that ours is simply to make people aware of what the bible says and let the chips fall where they may. Ultimately MOW YOU as an individual are the SOLE responsibility to get yourself right with God..have faith...and love the Lord...

If Baptism does not save but it is still a commandment for those that have faith and the same with the baptism of the Spirit...that individual has the responsibility to follow through on that...but they will never unless they discover baptism in Jesus name and the baptism of the Spirit for themselves or someone tells them.

When you tell a sinner about Jesus do you walk up and just tell them "you are going to hell"?

If they ask you "do you think I am going to hell?" do you just say "Yes that is my opinion." or do you say "Well let's see what the word says"?

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Conversely, a person can truly repent, receive the HG speaking in tongues, life a sanctified life, and not have been baptized in Jesus; name and they're still not rapture ready.
Againk this is really all irrelevant to HOW we should be treating each other despite doctrinal differences. A lot of 1 Steppers have Roman Catholics pegged as pagans going to hell....and I mean Trinitarian 1 Steppers. I know Catholics that say I am unsaved and not in the body of Christ....boo hooo...that really means nothing to me. It's not necessary to be offended nor is it necessary to use mockery or pejorative terms in addressing others.

At issue really is NOT "them"...at issue is what the bible says. THEY are not "wrong" just because some of us get emotional thinking about someone that repented but THEY say that person is not saved....if that person is saved or not saved our feelings have nothing NOTHING to do with it...it's what the word says.

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So, it appears to me, that the most important thing is NOT that their lives have changed due to a sincere surrender to the Lord, it is the completion of a 3 step paradigm. Their relationship with the Lord is of lesser importance than their completion of the 3 step plan. So the REAL deal is that these people are "damned" if they do and "damned" if they don't. Who is really getting the short shrift here?
Again, the real deal is that the truth is not based on feelings or emotions or expressions of outrage or pejorative mocking terms or ad hominem...nothing you have said here is materially enough to determine that THEY are wrong and YOU are right.
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Let me categorically say that it is NOT my intention to get anyone riled up and it doesn't help your cause to accuse me of doing so. How do you know that is my intent? Did you ask me if that was what I was trying to do? That's the pot calling the kettle black, Prax.
This is beside the point MOW...Your intent is NOT at issue....HOW we approach others is. Mizpeh is not going to be convinces she is wrong based on emotive, pejorative posts...Your intent is not being prosecuted...Mizpeh is a really great Christian IMO and very unjudgemental. Her attitude is great...greater than most 1-3 steppers anywhere around. Tying emotive loaded terms like that I find just makes the emotional level hike upwards and solicites equal responses from others.

It reminds me of the cessationist asking me "Why do you believe saying non-sensical gibberish words over and over is necessary to be saved'....

Well I don't believe that. But that statement is pejorative, emotive....it's LOADED and the result is usually just a wratchet up of the emotional level of the discussion. Now if that person just wants to discuss scriptures and what I believe about tongues, they could have said it like that and I would be more than happy to oblige.

What that persons intent was...I really don't care to be honest. That is beside the point

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Let me rephrase this to better reflect what I was trying to say:
We all knew what you were trying to say. Again that is beside the point.

But why can't you just respect the fact that maybe she feels uncomfortable just outright condemning people to hell? You see no person has that ability so to go around saying it is pretentious. Why can't she just go to the word? and let that person decide for themselves?
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I believe one is saved at repentance. To some I am right and some I am wrong.

I did read the MOW thread at first then was off here awhile and didn't ever catch up really. I know that accusations are thrown here and there by each side, but if one is true about what they believe that is all that can be asked. But the treatment that some 1steppers get from the 3steppers are if we are an ugly duckling of the movement. Some 1 steppers take it too far as well. Neither said should act as if they hold the whole truth. Neither does. If they did there would be no more need for God.
Amen. I never had a problem with just discussing the issues....for that though I was not a "friend" to some....but the personal stuff I think we need to get rid of....the emotive language...the mockery...it needs to go
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I understand what you believe and could take your side, from what I was taught for decades, and promote it quite well. This was actually referencing Miz, sorry.


I don't think you really know what I believe MOW, but that is really not the point. The point is attitude amongst brethren. Or are we brethren?

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I do understand that 3 steppers don't normally come out and literally state that unless someone speaks in tongues, they are going to hell.
Well is it a regular practice of One steppers to run around and tell people they are going to burn in hell, just like that? How about JWs? Are three steppers going to hell because they DON'T believe the One step and thus in your theology have really added to the word of God and even added works to their salvation? I don't believe so. Do you regularly tell them they are going to hell even if your theology "might" essentially condemn them when the logical conclusion is followed? If it's the truth, yes.

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However, the logical conclusion of that soteriology, is that a person is NOT saved unless they have spoken in tongues and therefore will not go to heaven because they are none of His and therefore will logically go to hell. That is the logical progression of that particular belief paradigm.
Well This is what I have seen...I have seen a lot of nasty, emotive and pejorative arguments tossed out that essentially pegs 3 steppers of relying on works. Follow the logical conclusion of that. They argue that the three steppers have a false soteriology..so then are three steppers saved? Yes. If a 1 Stepper argues salvation comes at Faith alone, at Repentance what is the logical conclusion then? The three steppers teach a false doctrine? Yes. False teachers? Yes. Pharisees? Some of them. Legalists? Some of them as well. What other pejorative terms have we seen? And those terms carry the connotation of condemnation...legalists are not really saved are they? They are if they have a relationship with god. Pharisees are not really saved, are they? Right? Even Pharisees are saved if they have a relationship with God.

Do you do that?

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What bothers me about all of this is that a person can truly repent, get baptized, live a sanctified life and not have spoken in tongues and they're not rapture ready.
Why should that bother you? Because it states that a person's true conversion is of lesser value than completing a formula IMO. That's their view. How about you? Maybe what bothers THEM is that you don't get peopel rapture ready by telling them all they need to do is repent and that's it? Im not saying that is true, but my point is it always works both ways. It is therefore offensive then to try to FORCE someone to condemn others to hell verbally when they feel direct condemnation is God's perogative and that ours is simply to make people aware of what the bible says and let the chips fall where they may. Ultimately MOW YOU as an individual are the SOLE responsibility to get yourself right with God..have faith...and love the Lord...

If Baptism does not save but it is still a commandment for those that have faith and the same with the baptism of the Spirit...that individual has the responsibility to follow through on that...but they will never unless they discover baptism in Jesus name and the baptism of the Spirit for themselves or someone tells them.

When you tell a sinner about Jesus do you walk up and just tell them "you are going to hell"? Of course not. But if they ask me a point blank question, I'll tell them the truth about ALL sinning and give them an honest uncloaked answer.

If they ask you "do you think I am going to hell?" do you just say "Yes that is my opinion." or do you say "Well let's see what the word says"?

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Conversely, a person can truly repent, receive the HG speaking in tongues, life a sanctified life, and not have been baptized in Jesus; name and they're still not rapture ready.
Againk this is really all irrelevant to HOW we should be treating each other despite doctrinal differences. A lot of 1 Steppers have Roman Catholics pegged as pagans going to hell....and I mean Trinitarian 1 Steppers. I know Catholics that say I am unsaved and not in the body of Christ....boo hooo...that really means nothing to me. It's not necessary to be offended nor is it necessary to use mockery or pejorative terms in addressing others.

At issue really is NOT "them"...at issue is what the bible says. At issue IS them. It is for THEM that Jesus died. It is ALWAYS about them. They need honest answers to honest questions. From the scriptures. THEY are not "wrong" just because some of us get emotional thinking about someone that repented but THEY say that person is not saved....if that person is saved or not saved our feelings have nothing NOTHING to do with it...it's what the word says.

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So, it appears to me, that the most important thing is NOT that their lives have changed due to a sincere surrender to the Lord, it is the completion of a 3 step paradigm. Their relationship with the Lord is of lesser importance than their completion of the 3 step plan. So the REAL deal is that these people are "damned" if they do and "damned" if they don't. Who is really getting the short shrift here?
Again, the real deal is that the truth is not based on feelings or emotions or expressions of outrage or pejorative mocking terms or ad hominem...nothing you have said here is materially enough to determine that THEY are wrong and YOU are right.

And you have a right to your opinion and I have a right to disagree with it just like we all do with each other around here.
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Amen. I never had a problem with just discussing the issues....for that though I was not a "friend" to some....but the personal stuff I think we need to get rid of....the emotive language...the mockery...it needs to go
Would this include calling posters reprobates? Sounds fairly emotive to me.
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