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Old 02-09-2008, 11:55 PM
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I have been around Americans from the South a lot during my life & though I have never been there (hope to one day) I have experienced thier hospitality.

I remember dating a girl from Oregon in the late eighties.
They opened up thier homes & thier hearts to me & even though there was good natured ribbing about my being Canadian I took it in fun, that and the fact they had guns hanging on the wall!

Do you feel the same about Southern Hospitality?

If you ever go to a home for dinner they wait on you hand & foot & make sure that you have enough Iced Tea.

Poor things didn't learn how to boil a cup of tea!

Would you agree or disagree?

Is that small town America or good old Southern Hospitality?
Brother, there is no Southern Hospitality in Oregon! There may be some precious soul from the south who is now compelled to live in Oregon, who was blessed to be born of proper heritage and new how to serve up Southern Hospitality.

The South is Dixie, Brother. That's down below Missouri. You know...God's country!
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Old 02-10-2008, 12:18 AM
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Umm, excuse me? I was going to tell you to come on down and over to Ohio; my door is always unlocked.
I've met a lot of great Ohioians on forums!!! You guys ROCK!

(Hmmm.... Ohioians... is that right???? Is that what you call yourselves?)
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We were out in the "desert" area where there wasn't a lot of water for irrigation. My great-grandfather (grandma's father) had served under Teddy Roosevelt in the Spanish-American War and received a land grant out in the desert. He'd recently immigrated from Bohemia after the family lost everything there to the Austrians. So a desert was better than no place at all, I guess. A lot of Czechs settled in around the Nebraska-Wyoming-Colorado tri-state area. The family still has a lot of ranch lands up that way.

Here's a Google Earth pic of my grandparent's farm. The black circle is (or was) their house and the out buildings including the barn, bunk house and garage. Primarily we were a dairy operation, though my grandfather also grew wheat and oats. As part of the dairy operation we raised calves for slaughter. Grandpa experimented with a few pigs for a couple of years but but gave it up. He was raised in Arkansas and I think he missed some of the things you could do if you had more water and cheaper feed.

The picture below makes it look like someone dragged a cultivator through the pastures.



The red circle at the bottom right was the home of the old hermit I mentioned. The "i" and the orange dot at the bottom right are the Minuteman III silo and the launch control center. "Malevolent" is the name given to that particular silo and its missile and warheads in more recent years. The command for the missile wing was at Warren AFB outside of Cheyenne, WY, which is why the silo has the "WY" attached to it. We're about 15 miles from the state line here. My dad's birth certificate read "Wyoming" even though he was born on the Colorado side of the line.

The line of bluffs to the north (top) took up a lot of my childhood. The picture is cropped a bit so you can't see the whole line. The bluffs were a hard and sharp congolerate across our property, but right after the fence line between us and the old hermit they softened up into chalk and sandstone. You would cut your hands up climbing on the hard stuff unless you wore gloves. But if you asked for a pair of gloves it kind of gave away the fact that you were climbing where you weren't supposed to. So we did our climbing on the hermit's bluffs. I couldn't begin to describe the wonders that could be found up in those bluffs. For a kid, it was a magical place.

As an idea of what the ground looked like, the Pawnee buttes were a few miles to the southeast. This was National Grasslands land. Lots of "antelope" (prong horn are not antelopes, technically speaking; but then who would the deer play with?), coyote, badgers, porcupine and many jack rabbits. There's a kind of a bird, a plover that nests on the ground. When you get close to its nest one of the plovers will start running in front of you trying to lead you away from its nest. This used to irritate me to no end when walking in the grasslands during spring. The stupid birds scrambling along and chirping pretending that they were injured and couldn't fly, almost made me want to injure a few just to be left alone. But my grandparents had strict rules about guns where we could shoot. Dairy farms are not suppoosed to get a lot of gun fire.

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I've met a lot of great Ohioians on forums!!! You guys ROCK!

(Hmmm.... Ohioians... is that right???? Is that what you call yourselves?)
Actually they are "Buckeyes!"
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Southern hospitality comes with a price. While you are sitting there in company, you get to hear all of the gossip about everyone else. They ask a lot of questions that is none of their business and are downright rude because "you ain't from round here are ya?". Well we have much better hospitality and we don't have to rely on gossip to keep up a decent informed conversation with others. Sometimes conversation is not necessary. Just being in the presence of friends can be enough. But southern folks have not learned that yet.
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Southern hospitality comes with a price. While you are sitting there in company, you get to hear all of the gossip about everyone else. They ask a lot of questions that is none of their business and are downright rude because "you ain't from round here are ya?". Well we have much better hospitality and we don't have to rely on gossip to keep up a decent informed conversation with others. Sometimes conversation is not necessary. Just being in the presence of friends can be enough. But southern folks have not learned that yet.
Well arent we the rude one... You are sadly mistaken.... we dont have to gossip about no one... we enjoy each others company and sometimes just talking to each other is enough to enjoy... ever thought of... seeing the kids and sittin down and eatin dinner and playing a few games talkin about how grown the kids have gotten and how the job is doin and well... guess you been to the wrong southern place cause that sure doesnt happen at my house and I would greatly appreciate if you would shrink that broad brush a lil bit there sir... very rude indeed.. but thats ok.. we know how all yanks are!
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Old 02-10-2008, 11:59 AM
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Thanks for the historical background One Accord. I had heard quite a bit of that from the Stones down the road from you. I noticed as we were down there the other day that there are several saddle-maker shops scattered on those back roads. Then I remembered that a nephew of ours had won a couple of saddles while team roping in California and he said they were made in Flatrock Alabama, right there by Ider. Sand Mountain is truly an interesting place to visit and the view of Lookout Mountain from the bluffs that the Stones live on is fantastic.
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Well arent we the rude one... You are sadly mistaken.... we dont have to gossip about no one... we enjoy each others company and sometimes just talking to each other is enough to enjoy... ever thought of... seeing the kids and sittin down and eatin dinner and playing a few games talkin about how grown the kids have gotten and how the job is doin and well... guess you been to the wrong southern place cause that sure doesnt happen at my house and I would greatly appreciate if you would shrink that broad brush a lil bit there sir... very rude indeed.. but thats ok.. we know how all yanks are!
I remember a church in the South where my choir visited..all the white kids went 2-3 to folk's homes while all the visible minorities went en mass to one house...talk about RUDE!
But that was only 1 church, I also went to some amazing churches who served great Southern Food!!!! I'll never forget the meals in Lake Charles!!!!!!!
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Old 02-10-2008, 12:27 PM
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Interesting history and photos Pelathais. I love all that country and have spent some time in much of it. Many hunting trips that included Gillette [Rozet], Cheyenne, Rawlings [snowed in there once], and down to Glenwood Springs, CO, Carbondale, and Paonia.
Your life on those "high plains" is the envy of all of us who seek out those wide open spaces. I believe it has a way of molding a man's thought process in a positive manner.
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[QUOTE=LordChocolate;385586]Southern hospitality comes with a price. While you are sitting there in company, you get to hear all of the gossip about everyone else. They ask a lot of questions that is none of their business and are downright rude because "you ain't from round here are ya?". Well we have much better hospitality and we don't have to rely on gossip to keep up a decent informed conversation with others. Sometimes conversation is not necessary. Just being in the presence of friends can be enough. But southern folks have not learned that yet.[/B]

wow! can we say stereotyping?! i guess we could say the same things about all "northerners" as well because i've often been made to feel like an unintelligent, racist, backwoods idiot due to where i'm from and my accent, but that would be narrow-minded of me considering there are plenty of great people from all over. sounds like you had a bad experience cause they don't call it southern hospitality for nothing. also sounds like this southerner is not the rude one here...
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