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04-01-2007, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted by rgcraig
The key here is within a marriage!
JS needs to hold another session for the married ladies and tell them to use their fun side to keep things exciting in their marriages!
However, I don't like the word "power" used in this case - - I don't like muniplitive women or woman that use sex or their appeal to munipilate men (and men really never grow out of this stage - sex always makes them like jello).
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LOL! Is your last paragraph referring to the unmarried?
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04-01-2007, 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Pressing-On
LOL! Is your last paragraph referring to the unmarried?
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It can apply to any really. I have a SIL (married) that uses her "power" to get what she wants and I just think it's down right wrong!!!!
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04-01-2007, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted by rgcraig
It can apply to any really. I have a SIL (married) that uses her "power" to get what she wants and I just think it's down right wrong!!!!
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Gosh, Renda. It all depends on what you really want. lol Isn't that just an inbred thing in us - to some degree?
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04-01-2007, 05:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Pressing-On
Gosh, Renda. It all depends on what you really want. lol Isn't that just an inbred thing in us - to some degree?
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Okay, Renda, please keep an eye on this post if you think it is over the line...
Men do the same things when they do dinner, activities, give gifts, their time and money - over the course of an evening or longer time period - then complain if they don't get what they want. How does this differ from women using their "powers" to get what they want...
Isn't this a mild form of prostitution?? If not, where is the line drawn?
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04-01-2007, 05:36 PM
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Gosh, Renda. It all depends on what you really want. lol Isn't that just an inbred thing in us - to some degree?
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I believe it is, but I was taught different and never used it that way (maybe I should have - lol!) NOT!
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04-01-2007, 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Jekyll
Okay, Renda, please keep an eye on this post if you think it is over the line...
Men do the same things when they do dinner, activities, give gifts, their time and money - over the course of an evening or longer time period - then complain if they don't get what they want. How does this differ from women using their "powers" to get what they want...
Isn't this a mild form of prostitution?? If not, where is the line drawn?
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I've never asked for money - that's the difference. O.K., once, but I was joking!!! 
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04-01-2007, 05:39 PM
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I believe it is, but I was taught different and never used it that way (maybe I should have - lol!) NOT!
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How can you be taught when it's just a part of you? It's just a natural reaction to things, I think. We play the game together. The one that lets you win isn't necessarily stupid. It just shows they wanted and enjoyed playing the game. 
This thread feels somewhat similar to Hairspray. Hahahaha!
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04-01-2007, 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Jekyll
Okay, Renda, please keep an eye on this post if you think it is over the line...
Men do the same things when they do dinner, activities, give gifts, their time and money - over the course of an evening or longer time period - then complain if they don't get what they want. How does this differ from women using their "powers" to get what they want...
Isn't this a mild form of prostitution?? If not, where is the line drawn?
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Jekyll, very good point and it is a delicate subject, but not sure one that shouldn't be discussed.
I completely agree - - the whole "oh, you look beautiful and I love you" lines that guys can use to get what they want. I completely agree!
So, maybe KJ (husband) was in the other room telling the boys, look guys you have power and girls are stupid - if you tell them they are beautiful and you love them they will have sex with you, so you don't need to use your power.
??????
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04-01-2007, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Pressing-On
How can you be taught when it's just a part of you? It's just a natural reaction to things, I think. We play the game together. The one that lets you win isn't necessarily stupid. It just shows they wanted and enjoyed playing the game.
This thread feels somewhat similar to Hairspray. Hahahaha! |
I understand what you are saying, I just choose to never use it for leverage.
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04-01-2007, 05:41 PM
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Originally Posted by rgcraig
Jekyll, very good point and it is a delicate subject, but not sure one that shouldn't be discussed.
I completely agree - - the whole "oh, you look beautiful and I love you" lines that guys can use to get what they want. I completely agree!
So, maybe KJ (husband) was in the other room telling the boys, look guys you have power and girls are stupid - if you tell them they are beautiful and you love them they will have sex with you, so you don't need to use your power.
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Hahahahahahahahaha! He probably was!
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