The Skewed Priorities of Some Modern Evangelists

[Charnock]

Originally Posted by Sister Alvear

and my post is NOT DIRECTED IN ANY WAY TO Marty Ballestero ...IT WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER NOT TO MENTION NAMES...JUST SITUATIONS...

His bio is public domain. Sorry, but a spade is a spade.

[Jason B]

I agree 100% with the opening post.

[mfblume]

Originally Posted by Charnock

In my mind there's nothing more important than family and God. Ministry is secondary to those things.

Amen!

[Charnock]

Originally Posted by The Lemon

A lot of the issues concerning priorities are generally passed down, either from parent, grand parent, or in some cases it is learned through the ministry practices of someone else. The issue, like issues of some convictions, are learned behaviors and therefore they are adopted and claimed to be ones own priorities and convictions, when in some cases neither are true.

In my 18yrs in OP / UPC, I have never heard much teaching or preaching on the importance of family, but I have heard a lot about the "call", and how everything is secondary to the call. In my life, I would say that the call is closely linked with performance. when you are performance driven, duty will always trump relationship - this is true of the family, and if not corrected, can be true of ones relationship to Christ.

The other sad fact is that there is not enough teaching on the love of God and grace, but again, these issues become side issues when there is a huge emphasis on performance. I believe we should be full of good works, but there does need to be a balance, and most people don't even bother to evaluate there lives in respect to balance.

I still think much of the "monster" that has been created has been so by tradition and expectation of others. The people that think and act outside of the box are usually black listed and wrote off as charismatic or relevant. Misery must love company! I remember hearing Hulk Hogan answer a question about success and he said, "Say your prayers, eat your vitamins, and exercise" it sounds absurd, but if folks would love there families, and if husbands and wives submitted to each other in love, I think the church would be a happier place and a lot of the clammoring would cease.

It's not about the building, the trappings, the calendars, the fund raisers, and programs...ITS ABOUT JESUS, LOVING HIM, LOVING EACH OTHER. Some people go to church, while others are busy being the church...

I do agree. It's a weird mutation in our spiritual DNA.

I believe a couple of reasons the house church and small groups have never really taken hold in the movement is because there's no visible evidence (buildings) to brag about with that model, and that house church doesn't lend itself to the traditional model of the screaming preacher.

[Praxeas]

Originally Posted by Charnock

Over the years I've heard a lot of people snicker about Lee Stoneking's marital status. He has never married, and this bothers a lot of people. There seems to be an unwritten rule that modern evangelists need to have trophy wives.

However, I am connected to a boatload of evangelists, missionaries and pastors via Facebook, and through years of friendships, and have noticed a distrurbing trend. That trend involves the minister traveling without his wife for weeks and months at a time.

I cannot believe that is healthy. I do not believe doing the work of ministry supersedes, or precludes, the work of fatherhood and husbandry.

For emphasis:

This is Marty Ballestero's blog bio:

"I'm an Evangelist. I miss my beautiful wife every day I'm away from her. Even after preaching 934 revivals, 339 Conferences & 63 Camps... it doesn't get easier being apart. If she lives to be a 100, I want to live to be a 100 minus 1 day, so I never have to live without her."

I guess I don't get it. If you don't want to live a day without her either take her with you, or find a way to minister closer to home. Seems simple to me.

Also, I recently watched a sermon of GG preaching at an Ohio District camp in which he mentioned that he hated being away from his wife so much, but had to do so because of his call. That his son had a problem with him being away so much, and was backslidden, but he (GG) had to be out preaching the gospel.

I suppose I don't get it. In my mind there's nothing more important than family and God. Ministry is secondary to those things.

I seriously wonder if an evangelist in the bible is what we have today in career evangelists that go from church to church and do what the pastor or local preachers could not do...huh?

[Sister Alvear]

Originally Posted by Charnock

His bio is public domain. Sorry, but a spade is a spade.

yes, I know just did not want any one to think I WAS TARGETING B..

[Jason B]

Originally Posted by Charnock

I do agree. It's a weird mutation in our spiritual DNA.

I believe a couple of reasons the house church and small groups have never really taken hold in the movement is because there's no visible evidence (buildings) to brag about with that model, and that house church doesn't lend itself to the traditional model of the screaming preacher.

screaming is often a substitute for substance.

[Jason B]

It seemed a little vain that the brother posted the exact number 934, 339, 63. Reminds me of the back of a baseball card.

[Praxeas]

Like I said, career evangelists. They have resumes

[Timmy]

I wonder, do some of them think they are literally fulfilling Matthew 19:29?

And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life.