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Old 08-06-2008, 01:20 PM
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Re: Polygamy in the Bible

I would recommend against it highly, but I could not tell them it was wrong or would cause them to go to hell, correct.
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Old 08-06-2008, 01:22 PM
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I've known of one...but she'd never admit it publically. I looked for at least one more and could find one.

Hey, my wife and I were talking about it once and she told me it might be nice to have another woman in the house...because she'd have someone to help with the house work and I'd be out of hair sometimes. lol I thought that was a very liberated statement at first...and then I realized it was her way of saying that at times I'm an annoying slob. LOL
well i will let that be your interpretation brother, you crack me up, at least you are honest, lol, dt
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Old 08-06-2008, 01:25 PM
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I would recommend against it highly, but I could not tell them it was wrong or would cause them to go to hell, correct.
No way! LOL
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Old 08-06-2008, 01:31 PM
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No way! LOL
Why is that so hard to believe? I'm not contradicting myself.

I just don't see how it would be beneficial or "good" so to speak. Especially here in the states in this present day.
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Old 08-06-2008, 01:39 PM
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Why is that so hard to believe? I'm not contradicting myself.

I just don't see how it would be beneficial or "good" so to speak. Especially here in the states in this present day.
I think you're just trying shock us.

So...if you wouldn't condemn their open marriage as sinful, how do you explain that it's not adultery or fornication?
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Old 08-06-2008, 02:33 PM
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If you give polygamy a pass based on allowances in the law and practices recorded in scripture, then mustn't you excuse divorce by the same token?
Miss Brattfield.... there is one difference between Polygamy and Divorce.... God himself endorsed and encouraged Polygamy.. he always forbid and condemnded divorce and remarriage... he is a God of Covenant and he sees marriage as a Covenant
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Old 08-06-2008, 03:06 PM
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I think you're just trying shock us.

So...if you wouldn't condemn their open marriage as sinful, how do you explain that it's not adultery or fornication?
Er can you rephrase or explain that please?
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Old 08-06-2008, 03:09 PM
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Er can you rephrase or explain that please?
If a husband and wife were mutually interested in an open or polygamous marriage wouldn't it be adultery or fornication? If not, explain why you feel it wouldn't.
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Old 08-06-2008, 03:11 PM
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Re: Polygamy in the Bible

You explain away your own lusts and the disrepect towards women using the Bible to do it. I find that shameful and sad. Remember how the Pharisees interpreted scripture to their own benefit and Jesus rebuked them and interpreted it in such a way that was righteous? The Pharisees hated Jesus, called him all manner of things and crucified him because he exposed their lusts cloaked behind religion. I find the same thing here. I find men using scripture to degrade women instead of lift them up, using it to excuse their own lusts, using it to give themselves privelege and deny the same privelege to the women.

Here is an example of a woman who escaped polygamy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jJAvqc5u9KM


I know the men here for it will say it doesn't have to be that way....but the end result of polygamy, although it may not be abuse, will always leave women second class citizens with fewer rights than men and unfulfilled in their relationships. Why a God-fearing man would want that and/or promote it in any fashion is beyond me.

This is my last post on the subject because I simply find it too disturning to think that men in the Apostolic church would fight for this supposedly based on the "Bible" to back it up. You can back up anything you want if you twist your views hard enough. Like I said, I don't find polygamy a sin as in making someone hellbound, I simply find it ignorant to promote as a good thing to do and ignorant to believe that polygamy can be an ideal.
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Old 08-06-2008, 03:19 PM
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If a husband and wife were mutually interested in an open or polygamous marriage wouldn't it be adultery or fornication? If not, explain why you feel it wouldn't.
I've read the whole thread, including all your posts. Didn't you already explain how it wouldn't be adultery or fornication?

If those are indeed sins in that situation, was Abraham in sin(due to his wife's handmaid)? And all the other biblical examples that have been mentioned thus far?

So do you view it as a sin?
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