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Old 01-18-2012, 08:32 PM
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1. I do not buy the trinity but am not convinced that oneness (taught the UPCI way) is technically correct either. Best I can explain the Godhead is to say that it's not either one of those views, may be too hard for humans to understand or explain or if there is a good explanation I haven't heard it.
I'm skeptical you understand "UPCI" Oneness. I find many many OPs have a distorted and uneducated version of Oneness

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2. I believe in the infilling of the Holy Spirit. I do not believe that the HS will make one act like a maniac and really want to avoid the whooping wild worship associated with Pentecost but still desire liberty in worship.
So you want your liberty in worship but want to find a place that restricts theirs?

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3. I prefer expository teaching.
People must have a different definition of Expository teaching. I hear Expository teaching quite often...though I wonder why more Christians aren't expository studying the bible.

What do you mean by expository?

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4. I prefer a place where simplicity, modesty, etc. are taught and practiced but not turned into a set of rules.
How about guidelines? How can you teach what is modest without guidelines?

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5. I would like some kind of interactivity in church. A time either in classes or after teaching/preaching where questions are welcome. I do not appreciate some one giving me my opinion if they want it especially when delivered as screaming from behind the pulpit.
can you imagine a church full of people all screaming out questions for the next hour or so? Why not ask the Pastor later? Im sure he is just as hungry as you are and he's been standing all that time.

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6. I want balance with my life apart from church. I can't come to 5 or 6 services/events/programs a week at church. I am happy if they are offered for those who want them but I do not want to be seen as less spiritual for not being at everything.
Huh? Sorry but that's not a UPC thing.I don't know of any church that has that many meetings let alone demanding you have to attend each.

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7. I would like to avoid money hungry church. Big building and expansion plans and their subsequent demands on the people to finance their personal dreams, dirty rich and getting richer ministry, places where tithes are taught in a threatening way. I am a generous, cheerful and faithful giver but really want to tear up my check after being told that if it is not enough I will instantly drop dead if lucky... if not I will get cancer like some other poor sucker... uhmm, I mean sister, did.
Again that is not a UPCI thing. That is a church to church thing. That does not happen at my UPC

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8. I'm not big on hearing about hell all the time or how everyone I know will wind up there and it will be all my fault if I don't manage to drag them to the next revival. I would prefer to skip the hell business all together but will tolerate it occasionally. I do my level best to reach the lost but am comfortable to leave others on their own spiritual journey without having to convince them that my way is the only way.
Again my UPC does not preach on hell all the time so this is not a UPC thing

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9. I prefer Sabbath keeping if possible but am willing to worship on Sunday. I don't want to hear that Sabbath keepers are stupid or that people that worship on Sunday are going to hell (see above).
Sabbath keeping? The bible says to rest not go to church. I've never heard that Sabbath Keepers are stupid or that people are going to hell for for worshipping on Sunday..so again that is not a UPC thing

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10. I don't really care for a lot of holiday hoopla. Trunk or Treat for Halloween, Christmas banquets, Valentines and Mother's day fund raisers, Easter picnics but if they go on it's no big deal to me as long as I am not required to participate for conscience sake.
Then don't participate. What UPC demands you participate? Mine does not so again that is not a UPC thing
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Old 01-18-2012, 08:33 PM
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Re: Want to help me pick a new religion?

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Question.

Do you all truly KNOW one another? Do you know your families, hopes, dreams, fears, struggles, temptations, sins, needs (with intentions to share and meet those needs), failures, and victories?

Or are all of you simply acquainted because you gather in the same building two to three times a week?
From my experience my answer would be "Or are all of you simply acquainted because you gather in the same building two to three times a week"
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Old 01-18-2012, 08:37 PM
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are all of you simply acquainted because you gather in the same building two to three times a week?
We are possibly just about as far away from the real Church as we can be with this model.
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Old 01-18-2012, 08:46 PM
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Re: Want to help me pick a new religion?

Its a broken system.
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Old 01-18-2012, 09:01 PM
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Re: Want to help me pick a new religion?

My feeling is that as soon as we try to systemize, it is broken.
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Old 01-18-2012, 09:15 PM
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I'm skeptical you understand "UPCI" Oneness. I find many many OPs have a distorted and uneducated version of Oneness


So you want your liberty in worship but want to find a place that restricts theirs?


People must have a different definition of Expository teaching. I hear Expository teaching quite often...though I wonder why more Christians aren't expository studying the bible.

What do you mean by expository?


How about guidelines? How can you teach what is modest without guidelines?


can you imagine a church full of people all screaming out questions for the next hour or so? Why not ask the Pastor later? Im sure he is just as hungry as you are and he's been standing all that time.


Huh? Sorry but that's not a UPC thing.I don't know of any church that has that many meetings let alone demanding you have to attend each.


Again that is not a UPCI thing. That is a church to church thing. That does not happen at my UPC


Again my UPC does not preach on hell all the time so this is not a UPC thing


Sabbath keeping? The bible says to rest not go to church. I've never heard that Sabbath Keepers are stupid or that people are going to hell for for worshiping on Sunday..so again that is not a UPC thing


Then don't participate. What UPC demands you participate? Mine does not so again that is not a UPC thing
I'll try to refine it a little for you... the list was originally for me so I knew what it meant... I can see where it would be confusing to someone else.

I have read David Bernard's The Oneness of God as well as many other works on Oneness by UPCI authors. I have also read all three volumes of The History of the Christian Church by Bernard, really everything he's ever written almost, multiple books on Holiness etc. I would say that I am better versed in Pentecostal theology than a lot of OP ministers. I simply do not believe the theology which does not mean that I do not understand it.

I want something more free than the Baptist church I attended where they were going to fire the new pastor because his wife raised her hands during the singing... But not over the top like the preacher at the UPC church who literally spit his dentures over the pulpit when in a frenzy, and had a seeker crawl around the entire sanctuary on his knees begging God for the HG. Walking on the backs of pews and even a preacher who once stood atop the pulpit screaming. Tongues blabbered throughout service, people falling over a la Benny Hinn, etc.

By expository I mean something more than cherry picking a couple of unrelated verses from the bible and then filling 45-60 minutes with anecdotes, stories, etc. A few weeks ago I heard a story from a UPC pulpit about a man who died.... well... until his wife let down her uncut hair and threw it over his dead body and then he came back to life. I bought the CD.. wanna hear it?

Modesty is a heart issue a lot more than a clothing issue. If you don't believe it take a look at most the girls at any youth rally. They buy the skimpiest sundress or bustier and then stick a T-shirt under it to make it 'legal'. Skirts that cup butts so tight that Wrangler jeans got notin' on them. How do you teach on the heart? With a solid foundation in the love of Christ for these girls and women and by helping then see that they are valued by God and by the men around them as more than just meat. Telling them to cover up because their horny brothers can't help themselves is obviously not working.

I am not sure why you believe that questions would need to be screamed if asked in small group, Sunday school, etc. Even most sanctuaries have good enough acoustics to carry a question to the front. Or at least it seems to work for testimonies and that aforementioned awful blabbering. I did not mean I was physically hungry, I meant that I am SPIRITUALLY HUNGRY.

Maybe you should keep an index card and just jot down how much hell is mentioned. You are going to hell if you don't pay up, your family and friends are going to hell if they are different religion, got baptized with the wrong words, do not understand oneness, wear pants, makeup, cut their hair... hell, hell, hell... some people are immune to hearing about it and are unaffected... I spent days and nights awake begging God for my non-UPC's son's soul while he was deployed... Obviously I am not as tuned out as some who were raised hearing it from the womb.

The Sabbath - Rest and worship. Easy peasy. I have already explained that I was saying that I don't want a Sabbath observing religion like Seventh Day Adventists who believe that Sunday worshipers are going to hell... since you are the second person I confused I will apologize for not being perfectly clear. If you have not heard that Sabbath keepers are wrong, confused, stupid, lost, unlearned, ignorant or whatever label your people would put on them then you probably have not asked the question 'Why do we not keep all 10 commandments' and pointed to number 4 when told that we do.... Try it sometime.

Our church's Trunk or Treat is promoted as our biggest outreach of the year. The truth is that if it were an outreach it would be the only one all year. Unfortunately it is mostly attended by other OP churches that do not allow Halloween and has never in it's history added a soul to the church. Our Easter picnic is the biggest church wide fellowship event of the year with an egg hunt and the Easter bunny for the kids at the park. Our Christmas banquet is in honor of our most holy holiday... last year we had Santa Clause.

Just don't participate... well, yes... that is what this thread is all about... I've decided not to participate.

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Old 01-18-2012, 09:25 PM
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Re: Want to help me pick a new religion?

Sis Titus, I gotta say you descriptions take the cake. Spit teeth out in a frenzy and ordered a believer to crawl around the church begging for the Holy Spirit! Sorry but that is funny! I know I know it's not really funny at all, just the imagery... it's hard for me to read this.
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Re: Want to help me pick a new religion?

The system will not allow open honesty as T2W is doing. System says get back in line and shut up,
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The system will not allow open honesty as T2W is doing. System says get back in line and shut up,

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Re: Want to help me pick a new religion?

I'll be praying for you! You're in a very important place in your life and you need wisdom to make good decisions. There is life after UPC, regardless of what some will tell you. But please please please maintain balance in your life and find a good church that still has the power of the Spirit.
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