I think there's some merit to the thought that a lot of bashing takes place. I took a break myself a month or so ago. At least a couple of weeks.

That's a long time in forum land. It's irritating when issues are set aside and character and men are attacked instead.
However, I also don't like it when true issues and problems are hushed up and rarely addressed by key leadership, AND I truly dislike it when an organization that is supposed to be founded on The Truth shores up unbiblical doctrines by allowing the twisting of scripture, because it is a means to an end.
I feel the same distaste that I feel when our country, which is founded on good principles, participates in nefarious activities that go against principle, and then pretends it's nose is clean. But that doesn't mean I don't still love my country. It just makes me sad.
More than that, though, it bothers me that brethren who should love one another are back biting each other, and destroying one another's reputations and tearing down and ripping apart. It's a shame to the entire church, not just the UPCI or the people doing the damage.
I remember my father defending Kenneth Phillips to other preachers who tried to criticize him. He would always point out that KP loved souls, and had a good heart, and was working for the kingdom. And we all knew that my father would have personally disagreed with KP on LOTS of issues. So I saw my father defend the
character of a man who didn't share his beliefs. I hope I can be like him when I grow up.