I went to the visitation at the funeral home tonight. It was a closed casket but with lots of photos displayed and a running slide show of pics on two screens.
He was an adorable little boy. The parents are kind of "hippies". The dad is a keyboardist in a rock band. He had a great night Friday night with a sold out concert and then the very next day his little boy died. It was so sad to see him just watching that slide show over and over again of pics of little Silas. I had never met the mom but she is a beautiful young woman who has to be going through hell on earth. There was a photo album of pics when Silas was born and then some framed black and white photos of him as a newborn with his mom looking down at him and him looking up at her.
Here is the obituary that appeared in the local newspaper. I told the dad I would be praying for him and I would like those of you reading this to help me do that. As the father of three children I can't even imagine what this mom and dad are going through.
OBITUARY;
Silas Rock Botner
Heaven has gained a new angel who is the sweetest and brightest little boy in paradise, Silas Rock Botner, age 3, of Murfreesboro left this world in a tragic accident on August 11, 2007. Services will be 11:00 a.m., Tuesday at Unity Church of Life in Murfreesboro with Reverend Felicia Blanco-Searcy officiating. Burial will follow in the Gordon cemetery.
Left here on earth with broken hearts and grief beyond measure are his brave loving parents Adam and Amanda Botner; paternal grandparents G’Paw and Ma B, Greg and Lora Botner of Danville, KY; maternal grandparents Paw Paw and NeeNa, James “Jim” and Louise Hardaway of Nashville; great grandparents Frances Botner and James and Flona Tewmey all of Harrodsburg, KY, Nancy Hardaway of Nashville and Helen Williamson of Welch, OK; an aunt Ashley Botner and uncles Adam and Andrew Hardaway. He was preceded in death by his great grandfathers Dr. J.A. “Rock” Hardaway, Stanley Botner and Gordon Williamson.
Memorials may be made to the Unity Church of Life in Murfreesboro, the Community Care Fellowship of Nashville or the Shriners Children’s Hospital, Lexington, KY. The family will receive friends Monday night from 4:00 until 8:00 p.m. at Woodfin Memorial Chapel 615-893-5151
www.woodfinchapel.com