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Old 10-03-2012, 02:00 PM
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That's the problem, too many ass pastors!
oops lol. assT!
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oops lol. assT!
Bwahahaahahhaa

Done it myself, could resist...

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There may be instances where the son or son in law is the right person to take over a church but from my observation a high percentage of the time it is the pastor's will, not God's.

The person taking over a church should be the absolute best person for the job. Not a person who gets it because he is marginally ok for the job but whose main qualificcation is being a blood relative or a relative by marriage to the current pastor.

The harsh reality is that more times than not the succession plan is based on ego, greed, and control rather than what is best for the church.
I think most of the time its groomed for it, go to keep it in the family.
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Old 10-03-2012, 02:04 PM
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Not a good sign. Family run business ok outside the church but not in it.
I'd be curious to hear your justification for this statement.

What's the difference?
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Old 10-03-2012, 02:07 PM
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I'd be curious to hear your justification for this statement.

What's the difference?
Really?
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Re: Prominent Memphis Area Pastor Resigns

Discussion can be more focused on destruction than construction.
There are many speculating on a church and minister they do not know.

The family that was on staff at TPC was among many that were on staff. TPC has been blessed with many ministers through the years on staff. Currently he did have 2 son-n-laws on staff and one daughter that was on staff.

There were 2 other secretaries, children's pastor, music director and etc that were not family.
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I'd be curious to hear your justification for this statement.

What's the difference?
I think one glaring difference is the church shouldn't be a business.
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I think one glaring difference is the church shouldn't be a business.
right, suppose to made of people with callings and gifts, not same last name.
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There may be instances where the son or son in law is the right person to take over a church but from my observation a high percentage of the time it is the pastor's will, not God's.

The person taking over a church should be the absolute best person for the job. Not a person who gets it because he is marginally ok for the job but whose main qualificcation is being a blood relative or a relative by marriage to the current pastor.

The harsh reality is that more times than not the succession plan is based on ego, greed, and control rather than what is best for the church.
Agreed, and many times that "son" was born with a silver spoon in his mouth and has never been through nothin', thus he cannot even relate to the hurting ones in the pew.
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Old 10-03-2012, 02:21 PM
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Really?
Absolutely.
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