Dear Freddie,
If you're reading this I hope you know that you seem like a really nice guy, and maybe some of the yelling that you did for Kay in the short clip I just watched was all for the show, but if you were to yell at me like that, you'd be yelling for a VERY.LONG.TIME.
Don't blame it on being an 'old-fashioned' guy. Chalk it up to pure laziness. My husband loves me, therefore he will get up out of his chair when he needs something instead of interrupting me with what I'm doing to do it for him. And while I have no clue what your circumstances/physical limitations are and don't want to judge you too harshly, I'm thinking that
maybe if you had continued to do those things for yourself, you wouldn't be in the condition you are in.
I hope things work out well for you two. I wish you success with your endeavour and I look forward to watching the show. You guys seem like you've got a great sense of humor.