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Originally Posted by ILG
Scotty, your daughter is acting pretty normally for what has happened. Just for the record, I worked as a domestic violence advocate for a year and a half. I also worked with sexually abused victims during that time. Although this does not make me an expert, I can say with a pretty good amount of certainty that you are thoroughly confused about what happened with your daughter, why it happened, and why she continues to act the way she does. You need to gain understanding. I will say she was probably attracted to the 22 year old.
She is NOT perfectly fine. She was victimized and taken advantage of. Society is at fault, yes. I agree with that. Society teaches both males and females wrong values. So, blame society, but understand your daughter is still totally confused. Sex abuse victims almost ALWAYS blame themselves. What happened was so traumatic that denial and pretending to be in control is easier.
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The males are guilty in abuse cases. The divorce industry made this industry flourish.
The father is thouroughly confused. That is how we see it on teevee.
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