Note to the reader: No one has yet to address the lovers fantasizing about each other prior to marriage in the Song of Solomon.
Paul advised that those who cannot contain (this is an acknowledgement that some simply can't contain) should marry, because it is better to marry than to live life burning with the passion of unmet needs. Nowhere did Paul condemn these virgins or widows who couldn't contain. Paul's advice is rather practical.
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