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Originally Posted by edjen01
i do understand that some females do not like being alone...but I do not think it is mostly security/acceptance driven. agreed there are times when a female would feel unsafe and the need to have more people with her...but i do not believe this is the primary reason they go to the restroom in packs...or attend church.
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If women don't find security and acceptance in the church they will find it elsewhere. Its in our nature.
Salvation should lead to a sense of security, in God of course. God's love should lead to a feeling of acceptance. Add fellowship with other women and bingo, you have a combo that appeals to women.
Women often remain in an abusive relationship with a man because of a false sense of security. Where will I go? What will I do? Etc. all come to mind if someone suggests she leave the jerk.
Likewise, women will often remain in a church that may not be ideal due to a sense of security whether it be false or otherwise. Men on the other hand will bail out or will unhappily remain for the sake of their spouse. Ask me how I know...on second thought, don't ask.