How close should a pastor get to the members?

[Rhoni]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

I guess it varies between people how they choose to handle situations.

We had a terrible experience in the first church we assisted. But, I don't judge all pastor/ministers by that one experience. It was HIS problem - not ours.

I hate that you feel there's never been anyone you can trust. Maybe your expectations are too high.

I trust the Assembly of God pastor I sat under during my Master's program. Yes, I assume my expectations for a lot of people as well as myself are higher than any of us can meet.