God uses suffering to teach us to minister

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This morning, it was raining. No work today. So... I decided to go to Scottsboro to look up a pastor I haven't seen in over twenty years. I haven't seen or spoken to this brother in many years, had no idea if he was even still living. He was, as it turns out. I found out through a mutual friend where this pastor lives and I went to see him. (He is still pastoring, visited his chrurch tonight).

When I got to his house I learned that he had just recently buried his 2nd wife. (His first wife died years ago). The brother was devastated. He, at first didn't recoignize me so I introduced myself and he remembered. He invited me in and I found that he was sorting thru his wifes things.(Oh, how I recall how painful that is). He kept turning to me with tear filled eyes saying, Brother, what am I going to do with out her?". I just let him talk. He poured his soul out - all of his pent-up emotion came flooding out... I waited...I listened. I cried with him...tried to console him.

Later, as I got ready to leave... he said, "Oh, brother, you don't know how much you helped me." Actually, I did nothing... I just let him talk. Then he added, "Its like you went thru this with me". It was then, as I was ready to walk out the door, that I said, "Brother, you remember my first wife...how she died in 1988?". He remembered. Then, I told him about losing Lola in February of this year. He knew then how it seemed I had went thru this with him. Had things not happened with Lola as they did, I wouldn't have known what to do to help this brother in the Lord. So... God has a way of teaching us thru our suffering, doesn't He?