Should standards be an issue when witnessing?

[Praxeas]

Originally Posted by Scott Hutchinson

I know of a man who when vistors visit the church he attends he talks them about their hair and stuff and this man has run people off,he is destructive and hurts people.
Pastors should do the teaching about standards,and God can clean people up.
If people get to Jesus he'll do the cleaning up.

I remember when I hadn't been in the church long a brother walked up to me and looked at my hair and just nodded and said "Yep.....you'll be cutting that hair short soon too like the rest of us"...I was like "What?"