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Originally Posted by Titus2woman
Don't misunderstand me... Breasts have plenty of great uses before and after babies... My 'baby' is 28 years old and my boobs are still serving good purpose 
It is probably MORE important for marrieds to have 'game'. Someone you do not live with is naturally interesting, always clean and on best behaviour, etc. It's a lot harder to dig up those grovin' moves for someone you have helped to the bathroom after surgery, seen deliver a baby, washed their dirty underwear, fought with over money and kids... blah, blah. But it CAN be done... and a great time to practice is in your dating life when there is really no pressure. If something doesn't jive you can just go home... once you are married if something doesn't jive you will have to lock yourself in the bathroom to get away  .
My husband is not tall... I had always dated tall men, I'm tall myself and never thought I could feel feminine with a man under 6ft. But there was something about Don that just said he could get the job done... and he has for almost 30 years. Looking back and trying to decide what that was... well... confidence, humor, decency... but more than anything he was himself... no put on... and that is the best 'game' of all.  |
Some very good thoughts here!
I've joked with others about how one can feel "in love" with their boyfriend or girlfriend but you will know if your REALLY in love after your married and you see when your better half forgets to "flush". LOL It has a way of washing away all the starry dreamy 'romantic' notions of love you may have had, but it is replaced by something better, the real thing.
And yes, romance can (and must!) survive the realities of a long term relationship in order for it to stay long term. Funny thing is, is long as you work at it continuously, even a little (and picked the right spouse to begin with that isn't TOO incompatible) it isn't that hard!
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