Its really not complicated .The bible does not contradict it self.Paul taught in
1st Cor 14:35 women should remain silent in the Church and in
1st Timothy 2:12 for women not to teach or usurp authority over the man because of their order in creation.
Timothy 3 gives the qualifications for a Bishop ,it also gives the qualifications of a lowly Deacon which leaves me with the conclusion that women do not qualify to the highest or lowest of these offices in the Church.You say show you proof I say The burden of proof is on the women , I stand on Gods Word, give me Bible that over turns Paul's teaching. Not implied meanings or vague suppositions but scripture .