Re: Swinging Church!
I know a UPCI pastor who takes a "hands off" approach to whatever couples do in private and long as it's mutually agreed upon. Not sure exactly how far he'd go with what he would allow though. I asked about a couple things and he said, "It's your love life, it's between you and your wife and what you agree upon as a couple." He said, "If you both are in agreement, neither are offended, and it's mutual; I don't ask...and you don't have to tell." I imagine there are others like him. I was talking to him about some of the standards of the church we used to attend (ultra conservative) where the pastor outlined exactly what intimate behaviors a husband and wife were allowed.
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