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Originally Posted by Felicity
What my husband meant is that I haven't been cutting it.
I know you're not expecting me to have to defend or justify why I'm not cutting it, but since you and others have mentioned it I might as well just explain that I started letting it grow simply because it's so much quicker and easier to fix. I can clip it up and have it done with and out of my face in the matter of a few minutes and it's done. That's the reason I started letting it grow, not because of UPC or GC or codes or any kind of outward pressure.
Just want to note too that I haven't made a big deal out of what I do or don't do presently in regard to my outward appearance, but others certainly have. The reason for this is kind of puzzling to me really.
If I was making a big deal of it and condemning others or telling others what they should or shouldn't do in regards to how they look would be one thing, but I've never done that.
Love you anyway bro.
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Felicity,
There shouldn't be any "anyway" in your love for me! I didn't post anything that should put any qualifier in there. I was just making the observation that your long time avatar did not reflect some of the recent dress code changes you have made.
I was not critcizing those changes or commenting on them in any way. Just noting them as they related to the conversation here.
While it is unusual to see a woman return to "bundage" it is certainly your right to do so. Besides I have a feeling you are not doing it out of a belief uncut hair is commanded in the Bible.
You have also made it clear many times that you personally have never had any issue adhering to traditional UPC standards so I don't think it is surprising to see you adapt to fit into your old fellowship that you and TB have been mending fences with.
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