Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :) - Page 68

rgcraig · #**671** 11-17-2008, 02:17 PM

Sis. Falla - great words!

You are exactly right in all that you said too!

Falla39 · #**672** 11-17-2008, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig

Sis. Falla - great words!

You are exactly right in all that you said too!

Thank you, Sis. Renda,

Shame on me if I don't share what I know from experience
to be true with others.

Hugs,

Falla39

Pressing-On · #**673** 11-17-2008, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Falla39

No, I am not just an old fuddy-duddy that is now too old to enjoy LOVE-making!
I'm old/wise enough to dislike "sex". There really is a BIG difference! I believe in
settling for the best! Again, if it's LOVE, and the LOVE-making is motivated by True
Love, it will last a while, surely a week. What do we expect out of those who have
to serve in the military or work out of town. If we think we can't go a day without
sex, and act upon that type of thinking, it's not LOVE, it's ME, ME ME! That type of
thinking could wind up in a divorce.

Blessings,

Falla39

Sister Falla,
I appreciate everything you have said and agree with most of what you have said. I am wondering about the paragraph above. A whole week? I could see someone that is in the military or working out of town doing that out of necessity. But, are you talking about two people at home together every day? When you live together, love each other, etc., etc., how can a week go by with no intimacy? Did I misunderstand you?

rgcraig · #**674** 11-17-2008, 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Pressing-On

Sister Falla,
I appreciate everything you have said and agree with most of what you have said. I am wondering about the paragraph above. A whole week? I could see someone that is in the military or working out of town doing that out of necessity. But, are you talking about two people at home together every day? When you live together, love each other, etc., etc., how can a week go by with no intimacy? Did I misunderstand you?

She also said, "For couples that have been married many years, IF you have to have sex every night, something is missing." - - it's about the "have to have" that she's addressing. That if it's true love, that you can skip a night or two (also in her post).

Pressing-On · #**675** 11-17-2008, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig

She also said, "For couples that have been married many years, IF you have to have sex every night, something is missing." - - it's about the "have to have" that she's addressing. That if it's true love, that you can skip a night or two (also in her post).

I agree on the night or two. I thought she said a whole week. That would be pushing it.

rgcraig · #**676** 11-17-2008, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Pressing-On

I agree on the night or two. I thought she said a whole week. That would be pushing it.

Well, we don't want to get into Sis. Falla's business, but I'm saying go girl!

tamor · #**677** 11-17-2008, 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig

Well, we don't want to get into Sis. Falla's business, but I'm saying go girl!

Pressing-On · #**678** 11-17-2008, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig

Well, we don't want to get into Sis. Falla's business, but I'm saying go girl!

Falla39 · #**679** 11-17-2008, 03:12 PM

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Originally Posted by rgcraig

She also said, "For couples that have been married many years, IF you have to have sex every night, something is missing." - - it's about the "have to have" that she's addressing. That if it's true love, that you can skip a night or two (also in her post).

Thank you, Sis. Renda,

That's exactly what I was speaking of. The thread seemed to promote
the idea of having sex every night. Sex three times a night and five on
the weekend doesn't necessarily mean it "true love". What about the
little mother with two or three little ones under five yrs. old. What about
the little pregnant mother in the latter stages of her pregnancy. There
are a lot of things which can be considered and should be. There is many
times a lack of appreciation for the little wife that works just as hard on
a job, yet she is expected to go home, cook, clean, etc.,etc., and then
perform in the bedroom as if she had done nothing all day. THAT IS NOT
True Love either!!! Love does NOT DEMAND or THREATEN. LOVE is KIND
and GENTLE.....and CONSIDERATE!

Hugs,

Falla39

Pressing-On · #**680** 11-17-2008, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Falla39

Thank you, Sis. Renda,

That's exactly what I was speaking of. The thread seemed to promote
the idea of having sex every night. Sex three times a night and five on
the weekend doesn't necessarily mean it "true love". What about the
little mother with two or three little ones under five yrs. old. What about
the little pregnant mother in the latter stages of her pregnancy. There
are a lot of things which can be considered and should be. There is many
times a lack of appreciation for the little wife that works just as hard on
a job, yet she is expected to go home, cook, clean, etc.,etc., and then
perform in the bedroom as if she had done nothing all day. THAT IS NOT
True Love either!!! Love does NOT DEMAND or THREATEN. LOVE is KIND
and GENTLE.....and CONSIDERATE!

Hugs,

Falla39

I see what you are saying. Most of our posts involve our personal situations, which don't always include being pregnant or raising children.

Good post, Sister Falla! I appreciate all of your wise words and counsel!!