Seven Days of Sex... Woo Hoo!! :)

[Rhoni]

Originally Posted by aak1972

And why is that dear? Can you not handle someone questioning you. From what I read you are a therapist of some sort. I sincerely hope it physical or respitory.

Men never cease to amaze me...well some men...if they get confronted they attach on the personal level. My profession is not in question as I see it

[Esther]

Originally Posted by aak1972

Well i am glad you do rggraig. But I dont. So whats the harm in me asking. IMO this person has done a lot of dancing( around a direct answer). And I am new on here but I am picking up on the fact that there is a clique on here that tends to gang up on anyone that disagrees with yall. I have read about 75% ot the threads on here and this is one constant that I see.

If you read some more and stick around you will see none of us agree 100% with each over everything 100% of the time. Most of us may agree on the majority of things but never 100%.

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by aak1972

Well i am glad you do rggraig. But I dont. So whats the harm in me asking. IMO this person has done a lot of dancing( around a direct answer). And I am new on here but I am picking up on the fact that there is a clique on here that tends to gang up on anyone that disagrees with yall. I have read about 75% ot the threads on here and this is one constant that I see.

Why don't you relax and enjoy yourself if you are going to be here. You seem to have a bit of a chip on your shoulder.

His answer is there is no yes or no answer - it depends on the couple.

[Neck]

Originally Posted by aak1972

You must be a politician b/c you still havent given a direct answer. And for as a fetish hold on sodomy I will answer that gladly when you give me your definition. You are seemingly an intelligent person and very full of words but I notice you dont really say yes or no.

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You are trying to define expression between a husband and wife as a wrong expression between every husband and wife.

Every relationship has it's intimate boundries.

I am not just an intelligent person, I care deeply about the heart, soul, mind and body of my lovely wife...

When two people care this deeply about each other.

Thier physical appearance and countenance will reflect it.

So many people in our circle and outside our circle do not believe that I am 44and my wife is 43.

If you were bold...... you should be asking how many on this forum understand that their spouse does not enjoy these acts?

Or does enjoy these acts?

Many things in a person's life.... does not have to be listed on some sin list not to enjoy them.

My wife gets sick when she eats seafood.

In our relationship of intimacy, would I ever take her to a joint that only serves seafood?

Would I ever force her to eat seafood?

Just because I enjoy it?

Would that somehow express or convey to me that she loves me more because she ate something that makes her sick?

In many ways you can sum the intimate relations between husband and wife with this real scripture.

To him that knoweth to good and doeth it not...To him it is sin!!!

In intimacy your spouse will share with you the boundries of good.

Then when good is good it is really good...

[tstew]

Originally Posted by aak1972

Well i am glad you do rggraig. But I dont. So whats the harm in me asking. IMO this person has done a lot of dancing( around a direct answer). And I am new on here but I am picking up on the fact that there is a clique on here that tends to gang up on anyone that disagrees with yall. I have read about 75% ot the threads on here and this is one constant that I see.

Join the Resistance...we have plenty of room.

J/K aak I think you may just need to slow down a bit and get to know some of the people. There are people here who are old friends...both via forums and in real life for decades, so there are some who are more friendly and familiar with a core group. There is also the fact that we are a relatively small and specific demographic so many positions are uniformly held and have become the traditional stance. This does lead to a pretty uniform flow on some topics and there are times when differing opinions are very much in the minority.
That being said the people here are great people (there are occasional exceptions...but hey even Jesus had a bad 1/12 in His forum).
Just take some time to get to know them and see how they pray for one another and support each other...even the ones who don't hold the majority opinions on every topic.

[Pressing-On]

Originally Posted by Neck

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You are trying to define expression between a husband and wife as a wrong expression between every husband and wife.

Every relationship has it's intimate boundries.

I am not just an intelligent person, I care deeply about the heart, soul, mind and body of my lovely wife...

When two people care this deeply about each other.

Thier physical appearance and countenance will reflect it.

So many people in our circle and outside our circle do not believe that I am 44and my wife is 43.

If you were bold...... you should be asking how many on this forum understand that their spouse does not enjoy these acts?

Or does enjoy these acts?

Many things in a person's life.... does not have to be listed on some sin list not to enjoy them.

My wife gets sick when she eats seafood.

In our relationship of intimacy, would I ever take her to a joint that only serves seafood?

Would I ever force her to eat seafood?

Just because I enjoy it?

Would that somehow express or convey to me that she loves me more because she ate something that makes her sick?

In many ways you can sum the intimate relations between husband and wife with this real scripture.

To him that knoweth to good and doeth it not...To him it is sin!!!

In intimacy your spouse will share with you the boundries of good.

Then when good is good it is really good...

Excellent post, Neck!!!!

[aak1972]

Originally Posted by rgcraig

I see the answer in his post clearly.

rggraig, I am asking an honest question. If you wanna delete this post thats okay. But Monday I will try to prosecute an individual for anal rape which in Mississippi is still sodomy. That is all I can say about that case. Just wanted to get a feel on some opinions.

[berkeley]

Well, alright. Still on that subject.

[rgcraig]

Originally Posted by aak1972

rggraig, I am asking an honest question. If you wanna delete this post thats okay. But Monday I will try to prosecute an individual for anal rape which in Mississippi is still sodomy. That is all I can say about that case. Just wanted to get a feel on some opinions.

Was this a married couple?

[Jermyn Davidson]

Originally Posted by 1399

I have read that mental or "emotional cheating" is far more insidious and damaging than the physical "defiling of the marriage bed" itself.

Would 7 days of intimacy with one's spouse help the plight of the spouse who is becomming (or already is) more emotionally attached to someone other than their spouse?

Does intimacy help any of the disfunctions that can occur in marriage relationship?

What if you just stop liking your spouse-- you love them, wouldn't want to hurt them, but you're "tired" of them and you want them to go away....

Does 7 days of intimacy help that situation?