[QUOTE=LadyRev;277753]OH BOY! I'm in the mood for a good rumble er I mean discussion today so I'll slap the spoon in the ole pot and give it a good stir...
Ultimate responsibility for this fiasco falls on the husband unless Paula was fooling around on him.
That part in the marriage vows about "for better or for worse" applies to the husband just as much as the wife. Therefore, unless she was fooling around on him, it is his responsibility, as the HUSBAND to do whatever it takes to keep the marriage together...that includes denying his own flesh under ANY circumstances other than unfaithfulness of his spouse.
Just as Adam carries the blame for sin entering the world, so Randy carries the blame for this.
1 Timothy 2:14
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Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.