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Old 03-15-2010, 03:55 PM
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Does Anyone Leave This World Perfect?

Doing a funeral tomorrow for a suicide victim.

Have a question or two for your consideration.

1) Why do some people automatically conclude that someone that commits suicide is "going to hell?"
2) Does God look at all sin the same?
3) What if a Christian dies and has been guilty of a sin of omission? Does he/she automatically go to hell?
4) When does our Advocate with the Father kick in? (Crude way to put it, but I think you understand!)
4) Finally, does anyone leave this world as a "perfect individual?"

Please, I'm not promoting any particular idea. I have mine. Just wanted to see what yours was! Okay!

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Old 03-15-2010, 04:02 PM
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Re: Does Anyone Leave This World Perfect?

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Doing a funeral tomorrow for a suicide victim.

Have a question or two for your consideration.

1) Why do some people automatically conclude that someone that commits suicide is "going to hell?"
2) Does God look at all sin the same?
3) What if a Christian dies and has been guilty of a sin of omission? Does he/she automatically go to hell?
4) When does our Advocate with the Father kick in? (Crude way to put it, but I think you understand!)
4) Finally, does anyone leave this world as a "perfect individual?"

Please, I'm not promoting any particular idea. I have mine. Just wanted to see what yours was! Okay!

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the traditional response would be something like everyone else has a chance to repent or ask forgiveness but since suicide is a sin and doesn't give one time to repent or ask forgiveness then the person could not have obtained it.
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Old 03-15-2010, 04:04 PM
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the traditional response would be something like everyone else has a chance to repent or ask forgiveness but since suicide is a sin and doesn't give one time to repent or ask forgiveness then the person could not have obtained it.

What if one dies today and in the last hours had commited a sin of omission? Would he go to hell?

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I have ... Hippopotomonstrosesquipedaliophobia! The fear of long words.

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Old 03-15-2010, 04:31 PM
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What if one dies today and in the last hours had commited a sin of omission? Would he go to hell?

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the traditional reponse would be yes I think. as long as he didn't repent or ask for forgiveness.
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Old 03-15-2010, 04:41 PM
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the traditional reponse would be yes I think. as long as he didn't repent or ask for forgiveness.
??? Do you believe in the "Traditional Response"? Let me expose myself...NO, let me expose my hand. I don't believe this. I believe we have an Advocate with the Father. What is He doing? How does He help us?

If we are held accountable for "every sin," even those that we may not know we have committed, then to make it to Heaven we have to be perfect! He is our perfection!

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I have ... Hippopotomonstrosesquipedaliophobia! The fear of long words.

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Old 03-15-2010, 04:49 PM
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Re: Does Anyone Leave This World Perfect?

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??? Do you believe in the "Traditional Response"? Let me expose myself...NO, let me expose my hand. I don't believe this. I believe we have an Advocate with the Father. What is He doing? How does He help us?

If we are held accountable for "every sin," even those that we may not know we have committed, then to make it to Heaven we have to be perfect! He is our perfection!

Been Thinkin (And sometimes that's dangerous!)
I agree with you..... but.......

I think some would say that a person who commits suicide had lost their faith, and without faith we can't be saved. Would you agree?

(my personal opinion is that it just depends..... there are a lot of extenuating circumstances that surround suicides, I don't think you can make a blanket statement about them)
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Old 03-15-2010, 05:09 PM
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??? Do you believe in the "Traditional Response"? Let me expose myself...NO, let me expose my hand. I don't believe this. I believe we have an Advocate with the Father. What is He doing? How does He help us?

If we are held accountable for "every sin," even those that we may not know we have committed, then to make it to Heaven we have to be perfect! He is our perfection!

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Everyone believes we have an advocate with the Father...

As far as whether I believe in the traditional response, I'm not sure. I wouldn't commit either way.

I do believe in general that one failure does not make one a failure. I believe that one sin does not make one a sinner. I believe that one lie does not make one a liar...

When I read in revelations about who are outside new Jerusalem I don't recall it saying those who lied once or did this or that once, it says liars and adulterers and... It characterizes these people by their lifestyles and not by a single action.
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Re: Does Anyone Leave This World Perfect?

Does God condemn a believer that dies with cancer? Heart attack? Someone that commits suicide has a mental sicknes, how is that different than any other disease?

No one is "perfect" in the legalistic sense in this world. It is only when we see Jesus that we will finally "be like him".
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Does God condemn a believer that dies with cancer? Heart attack? Someone that commits suicide has a mental sicknes, how is that different than any other disease?

No one is "perfect" in the legalistic sense in this world. It is only when we see Jesus that we will finally "be like him".

You guys are great! You know why? You're saying what I wanted you to say. Good to hear from others that look at an issue much in the same way. Suicide is probably one of the most difficult means of death that families have to deal with. I try to be an encourager instead of a condemner.

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LIFE: Some days you're the dog and some days you're the hydrant!

I have ... Hippopotomonstrosesquipedaliophobia! The fear of long words.

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"I love the man that can smile in trouble, that can gather strength from distress, and grow brave in reflection." - Thomas Paine
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Old 03-15-2010, 07:04 PM
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Re: Does Anyone Leave This World Perfect?

This one hits close to home for me.

I lost one of my best friends to suicide in 2006.

It was one of the hardest things I've dealt with in my adult life.
I wish I'd known then what I know now.


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