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Old 12-27-2008, 02:57 PM
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Funeral With $100 Offering Line (HUH??)

I had to tell someone about this. So I went to this funeral / musical last night 12/26 for a local minister of music who died here in ATL and why after 4 choirs did the pastor of this church get up and say "There is a blessing in the house, we need to give tonight". I was like huh????????? Did I hear that right? The family litterally collapsed walking down the aisle while the Praise and Worship team sung a familiar worship song, and you mean to tell me we have to give an offering. Get this, the Pastor claims it was for the daughter of the deceased (although I am still wondering why didn't the church just give the last check of the minister of music to the family). Aint look like no one had not eaten for days. Is this what the world has come to? He started the offering line out at $100 (as if I was prepared to give....I didn't even bring my bible never the less my wallet into the church!) Not once did he say that the family was poor or that they had no food or that it was a burden to pay for an unexpected funeral. I was so mad (along with others) that there was a mass exodus. People walked out and never came back in. Oh, let me not forget he said that there was an ATM and they were taking credit cards if they did not have cash or checks. All you had to do was go into the church bookstore to make your transaction. *sigh* Ushers, please come to the front . . . HUH?????? (and let me just add I felt in my Spirit that this church was up to no good and the night of the funeral was the WRONG NIGHT to make a money line. How simple would it have been "Oh thou Mega Ministry" to have made this announcement on Sunday when the whole church perhaps could have participated, not when the casket is open and everyone is passing out)
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Old 12-27-2008, 03:02 PM
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Re: Funeral With $100 Offering Line (HUH??)

I can see a good intention in doing that. Many people have financial burdens at the deaths of loved ones if no life insurance, for example, was utilized.But with the bad reputation people have of churches hording money, it was somewhat unwise without a clear explanation.
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Old 12-27-2008, 03:11 PM
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I had to tell someone about this. So I went to this funeral / musical last night 12/26 for a local minister of music who died here in ATL and why after 4 choirs did the pastor of this church get up and say "There is a blessing in the house, we need to give tonight". I was like huh????????? Did I hear that right? The family litterally collapsed walking down the aisle while the Praise and Worship team sung a familiar worship song, and you mean to tell me we have to give an offering. Get this, the Pastor claims it was for the daughter of the deceased (although I am still wondering why didn't the church just give the last check of the minister of music to the family). Aint look like no one had not eaten for days. Is this what the world has come to? He started the offering line out at $100 (as if I was prepared to give....I didn't even bring my bible never the less my wallet into the church!) Not once did he say that the family was poor or that they had no food or that it was a burden to pay for an unexpected funeral. I was so mad (along with others) that there was a mass exodus. People walked out and never came back in. Oh, let me not forget he said that there was an ATM and they were taking credit cards if they did not have cash or checks. All you had to do was go into the church bookstore to make your transaction. *sigh* Ushers, please come to the front . . . HUH?????? (and let me just add I felt in my Spirit that this church was up to no good and the night of the funeral was the WRONG NIGHT to make a money line. How simple would it have been "Oh thou Mega Ministry" to have made this announcement on Sunday when the whole church perhaps could have participated, not when the casket is open and everyone is passing out)
I'd like to take up an offering right now...please donate what you can. Any amount will help. The money will all go to an English class for PraiseHymn...after which I will ask him to come back and repost his first post so I can understand it a little better
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Old 12-27-2008, 03:19 PM
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Re: Funeral With $100 Offering Line (HUH??)

Funny! At times when I post I prefer NOT to use correct English. Thats the tone I was trying to create. So sorry you were not able to understand anything I said. Perhaps its the "ghetto" in me.
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Funny! At times when I post I prefer NOT to use correct English. Thats the tone I was trying to create. So sorry you were not able to understand anything I said. Perhaps its the "ghetto" in me.
Ghetto? No....I was thinking more along the lines of kissing cousins, possum pie and moonshine.
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Ghetto? No....I was thinking more along the lines of kissing cousins, possum pie and moonshine.
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Ghetto? No....I was thinking more along the lines of kissing cousins, possum pie and moonshine.
And just what is wrong with that?
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Funny! At times when I post I prefer NOT to use correct English. Thats the tone I was trying to create. So sorry you were not able to understand anything I said. Perhaps its the "ghetto" in me.
I was with you. Sometimes you have to use the proper vernacular to properly convey a hot ghetto mess
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I was with you. Sometimes you have to use the proper vernacular to properly convey a hot ghetto mess

A hot ghetto mess indeed!!!

In a way, it's kind of sad.
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I had to tell someone about this. So I went to this funeral / musical last night 12/26 for a local minister of music who died here in ATL and why after 4 choirs did the pastor of this church get up and say "There is a blessing in the house, we need to give tonight". I was like huh????????? Did I hear that right? The family litterally collapsed walking down the aisle while the Praise and Worship team sung a familiar worship song, and you mean to tell me we have to give an offering. Get this, the Pastor claims it was for the daughter of the deceased (although I am still wondering why didn't the church just give the last check of the minister of music to the family). Aint look like no one had not eaten for days. Is this what the world has come to? He started the offering line out at $100 (as if I was prepared to give....I didn't even bring my bible never the less my wallet into the church!) Not once did he say that the family was poor or that they had no food or that it was a burden to pay for an unexpected funeral. I was so mad (along with others) that there was a mass exodus. People walked out and never came back in. Oh, let me not forget he said that there was an ATM and they were taking credit cards if they did not have cash or checks. All you had to do was go into the church bookstore to make your transaction. *sigh* Ushers, please come to the front . . . HUH?????? (and let me just add I felt in my Spirit that this church was up to no good and the night of the funeral was the WRONG NIGHT to make a money line. How simple would it have been "Oh thou Mega Ministry" to have made this announcement on Sunday when the whole church perhaps could have participated, not when the casket is open and everyone is passing out)
I guess the "can you take it with you" experiment failed; huh?
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