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07-01-2008, 08:25 PM
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Are you more hard on others or yourself?
At work, I tend to be a perfectionist and expect perfection of others. When I analyize myself I find that in being hard on others I am not just equally hard but probably hold myself to such a high standard that I cannot ever feel good enough. Can anyone else relate to this?
Blessings, Rhoni
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07-01-2008, 08:38 PM
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Re: Are you more hard on others or yourself?
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Originally Posted by Rhoni
At work, I tend to be a perfectionist and expect perfection of others. When I analyize myself I find that in being hard on others I am not just equally hard but probably hold myself to such a high standard that I cannot ever feel good enough. Can anyone else relate to this?
Blessings, Rhoni
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This is easy, I am easy on others, but obsess over almost everything in my own life.
...sorry if I offended you by what I said Rhoni.
...but seriously, I need therapy.
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07-01-2008, 08:40 PM
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Re: Are you more hard on others or yourself?
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This is easy, I am easy on others, but obsess over almost everything in my own life.
...sorry if I offended you by what I said Rhoni.
...but seriously, I need therapy.
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No offense taken...I am sitting here hitting myself for not proof-reading before submitting the same question twice. I know better than that. I need therapy too. Know where I can get a good counselor?
Blessings, Rhoni
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07-01-2008, 08:43 PM
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Re: Are you more hard on others or yourself?
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No offense taken...I am sitting here hitting myself for not proof-reading before submitting the same question twice. I know better than that. I need therapy too. Know where I can get a good counselor?
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07-01-2008, 08:44 PM
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Re: Are you more hard on others or yourself?
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I instantly have this visual of Lucy Van Pelt and her psychiatrist is IN sign...
...sorry if I offended you there Renda.
...honestly, I need therapy.
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07-01-2008, 08:50 PM
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Re: Are you more hard on others or yourself?
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I instantly have this visual of Lucy Van Pelt and her psychiatrist is IN sign...
...sorry if I offended you there Renda.
...honestly, I need therapy.
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If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
2 Chronicles 7:14 KJV
He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God? Micah 6:8 KJV
Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is. 1 John 3:2 KJV
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07-01-2008, 08:45 PM
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Re: Are you more hard on others or yourself?
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Renda,
Yes, you have been through the past few years...anyone tell you that you'd make a good therapist? Consider yourself told.
Blessings, Rhoni
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07-01-2008, 08:46 PM
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Re: Are you more hard on others or yourself?
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Renda,
Yes, you have been through the past few years...anyone tell you that you'd make a good therapist? Consider yourself told.
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Yes, matter of fact I have been told that.
I edited your poll.
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07-01-2008, 08:39 PM
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Re: Are you more hard on others or yourself?
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Originally Posted by Rhoni
At work, I tend to be a perfectionist and expect perfection of others. When I analyize myself I find that in being hard on others I am not just equally hard but probably hold myself to such a high standard that I cannot ever feel good enough. Can anyone else relate to this?
Blessings, Rhoni
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Rhoni, you might want to check you poll questions, they are both the same.
I am harder on myself than others.
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If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
2 Chronicles 7:14 KJV
He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God? Micah 6:8 KJV
Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is. 1 John 3:2 KJV
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07-01-2008, 08:41 PM
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Re: Are you more hard on others or yourself?
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Rhoni, you might want to check you poll questions, they are both the same.
I am harder on myself than others.
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Don't you know that is how thearapists think? They give you two options, both being the same and make you THINK you are the one who made the wrong decision.
...sorry if I offended you Rhoni.
...but seriously, I need therapy.
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