If a woman wants to flirt, a wedding band is not going to stop her nor is it going to protect her if someone wants to flirt with her. Sorry, but I personally could never see the logic there. A person knows whether a woman or man is married (and not looking) by the actions, not the wedding band. I respect your beliefs but for me I don't see that a wedding band has any significance as far as to flirt or receive flirtations.
as much as I respect your right to say what every you want... and with as much kindness as I can muster, i really dont care what you think.
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as much as I respect your right to say what every you want... and with as much kindness as I can muster, i really dont care what you think.
Fine with me....I wasn't trying to be offensive...It's just that I do not believe that a wedding band prevents a person from flirting or being flirted with. I have worked at a public job for over 30 years and I have seen those with wedding bands my age flirt like teenagers and men with their wedding bands on flirt the same. Men at work know their boundaries with me. I don't have to wear a wedding band to "act married" - nor does my husband.
Talklady I have known woman on the job who have worn a wedding band who did not act married, and then there are those who don't wear a band who acted like a married woman.
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People who are always looking for fault,can find it easily all they have to do,is look into their mirror.
There they can find plenty of fault.
Fine with me....I wasn't trying to be offensive...It's just that I do not believe that a wedding band prevents a person from flirting or being flirted with. I have worked at a public job for over 30 years and I have seen those with wedding bands my age flirt like teenagers and men with their wedding bands on flirt the same. Men at work know their boundaries with me. I don't have to wear a wedding band to "act married" - nor does my husband.
Blessings,
TalkLady
We certainly can and do respect your convictions.
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People who are always looking for fault,can find it easily all they have to do,is look into their mirror.
There they can find plenty of fault.
I'm not condemning anybody to hell who wears a wedding band. God is everyone's judge. I was just giving my opinions on whether or not a wedding band has any relevance as to a person's conduct.
Talklady I have known woman on the job who have worn a wedding band who did not act married, and then there are those who don't wear a band who acted like a married woman.
It all goes back to what is in our heart, not what is on our finger or the clothes we wear.