[Jeffrey]

Originally Posted by MissBrattified

Can you elaborate on how Paul makes it clear that fornication isn't sin?

I never said Paul didn't include fornication as sin. I will explain what I meant though... in a moment.

We have multiple things being brought up on this thread. However, there is a common theme--self-gratification, viewing pornography and fantasizing while having sex are all things that require a person to find sexual satisfaction in someone OTHER than a spouse. I think that's what's being objected to, and there is a blurred line with the role playing. Apparently some people don't just put on sexy outfits--they actually pretend their spouse is someone else. IMO, that's wrong. Fair enough. Some aren't that far either. Some feel like pretending to be a secretary is a sin against God. The only scripture we have about these thoughts in the context of marriage (visualizing/fantasizing) is Matthew 5 which has been treated clumsily by Bible Study groups everywhere. However, in principle, I think you have a point... just not sure I can put an exclamation mark on it. The tone on this post from the others has been bold and exclamatory. Just can't go that far... sorry.

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